ohh snap

[gymnastbabe1275]

I'm between a rock and hard place right now. I have feelings for the guy...and pretty much I have had feelings for him since the day I met him (whic was like 5ish years ago). We've never officially dated, but we have come sooo close so many times, but the timing has always been off...and now, the timing is still so wrong, or is it? I don't know

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[calif_orchid]

have you and he had a conversation about possibly dating?

because if he's dating another girl, i'm make sure to put my foot down and make sure that he's NOT dating her before anything even remotly starts to move in the direction of you...

from experience, guy with other girls are trouble, no matter how much or how often they tell you that they like you and care about you and want to work on things with you. because as long as that other girl is around, he's never truly yours, and you're just that girl.

take it from a girl that's been "that girl" three/four times now. it fucking sucks.

[gymnastbabe1275]

man, i dont know what to do crystal! We are so right for each other, and I feel so bad wanting to be iwth him and kinda just butting my way back into his life...like I feel so bad about it and i don';t want to make him feel like pick me and dump her...I just made it known that I want to be with him and he has said if she wasnt in the picture it would be me and only me, we have such a rocky history and if i hadnt been stupid we would be together, but at the time I was scared and he was moving thousands of miles away for school and I was scared and just didnt want to deal with it, and if i had, we would be together, and I feel like we should be, and He does care about me, I know he does, he just has this girl, and I know its hard to just say goodbye to someone like that (shes 3 years yonger tho...which grosses me out) and I'm not trying to break up a good thing, its just like, if I have a chance (like I feel i do) I want to make sure I go for it so that i don't regreat never trying later on...you know? AHHH come home, i need you for

[calif_orchid]

ha ha, you only need me for drama like this because it's my life...

my advice, if you've made it be known, then that's all you can do. You don't want to get with him right after a break up, because then that will blow up in your face. continue to show your pretty beautiful self around, but don't let him know that you're pining for him, waiting for him...because the moment that you don't want him, he'll want you and just all you. know what i mean?

if it's meant to be, it will happen. it might feel right, but maybe right now its not hte right time. know what i mean? and trust me, i've learned that lesson.

and don't be hard on you! because if he was moving far far far away and you two had been together, can you honestly say that you would still be together today? because i've learned that anything is possible, but that means ANYTHING.

[gymnastbabe1275]

you are so wise....I miss you soo much! thanks for everthing!