Comments | haileyfish: ben

haileyfish

ben

Jan 18, 2004 12:00

hmm, so i havent written in a while.. well ok nothing has changed and i dont have nething to write about except for ben because ben is sadly my life. now i mean sadly not because i dont want ben to be my life because i do.. i love him.. but unfortunetally he doesnt want me to b his life ( Read more... )

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kimmah281 January 18 2004, 18:50:52 UTC

we have a rule where we have to ask each other when we have opposite sex in our car

thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard! hes your boyfriend, not your mother! you can have who ever you fucking want in your car. if you guys are so in love then he should trust that youre not gonna do antyhing with that person...and you should trust him too. dont let a boyfriend control you i hate when people do that.

everandaday31 January 18 2004, 19:05:49 UTC

woah. well said.

haileyfish January 18 2004, 20:39:39 UTC

keeem, devon and danielle and me want u to post new years photos

kimmah281 January 18 2004, 22:11:49 UTC

my scanner doesnt work :(

shaaaa January 18 2004, 20:06:42 UTC

i was going to make the same point about the car. i mean come on! Nick and I always tell each other what we're doing, wheather it's hanging out with TCC or hanging out with guys I always tell him just because (and he tells me too). I certainly never ASK him though! If Nick were to EVER tell me I CANT go somewhere or hang out with someone, I'd tell him to fuck off.

kristieb January 18 2004, 23:06:01 UTC

i think you should do whatever you want and don't think about how its going to affect him or anything. cause its all about you, its your life and your goals and in the end chances are you wont be together forever.
i dont want to sound like a fuck.
hes really controlling and thats not healthy.
and it doesnt seem like he makes things fair for you.
i dunno if any of that even helps, but just treat him nice but do waht YOU want.

mbrgretz January 18 2004, 23:27:50 UTC

um.. in the defense of my gender.. we are not all like that.. so you dont hate us all.. just ben!

ben has been pushing you around since the day you and him started going out.. i think its time you grew a set of balls and start pushing back.. i know you love him and allo but do you honestly thing that asking eachothers permission to have a person of the opposite sex in the car is right?? if it does to you then i dont know what to think.. basically your fucked.. and if this scheduled talk that you are supose to have today does end up with him wanting to break up.. fuck it.. im sure you can get any other guy you wanted.. its fuckin retarted for you to wait around for him.. y dont you go explore and see what else is out there.. cause honestly.. ben is not the best guy in the world.. he treats you like you are his possetion not his girlfriend. so what you think is right.. do the opposite!! cause i know you!! you will make the wrong decission

k im done

bkl0irnnk January 18 2004, 23:30:09 UTC

Ben pulled the same shit with me. All those things he says to you are just an excuse for him to get out of the relationship. If you are smart, you will break up with him first, which will not only prepare you for the break up because it happens on your terms, but also because if he thinks you are serious about not being with him anymore then he might reconsider. Oh, and when you break up with him, don't just break up, find a good reason like when he messes up so you can like YELL at him and get really fucking angry and curse a lot and he'll be like oh okay.. she's not my bitch. *even if you are* lol ;)