Wow, so the craziest thing happened and I actually looked at my friends page! Usually there's nothing interesting to read, but geesh guy! Start a novel on me here! Okay, first of all, you're at COLLEGE! That's sposed to be where you can meet all kinds of people! So do it! Facebook or whatever, so what if you can mainly only talk to them online? Then when you DO get a free weekend from work or whatever, you've got someone to hang out with an do stuff with. Which leads off to the girlfriend thing. If you want to be with her, you'll figure out a way to make it work, if you want to meet new people to hang out with, fine, but don't leave her out...I mean, if you have time to hang out with other people, you've got time to hang out with her, right? And for the studying thing, can she study with you? Or hang out quietly while you study and then take study breaks with you? I dunno, I dont know her, but I know what its like to feel like someone doesnt have time for you =) (but we're not getting into me here! This is your post! lol
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All right... Yes, I meet people all the time, and it was a day where I sat inside doing homework... Because that comes around from time to time. And I suppose I should say that I don't plan on leaving her... The thing is, my time is taken up a lot by work, classes, homework time and all the orginizations I am in (and I'm actually going to quit a few of those so that I can focus on other things... Things that actually matter and mean something to me) If you want to get ahold of me, feel free (ihateallnumbers@hotmail.com or whodcareboutme (im not on AIM that much though, and I'm always on MSN, but not always there))... I find that I always need more time though, and meeting new people isn't hard, no. I just love doing it so much, hearing new things... But as for now I have to get back to homework - but it was awesome to actually hear from you... This should happen more often!
I think it sounds like you and your girlfriend need a break. One of the quotes that I live by reads "In love, neither person can depend on the other for happiness. Both need to be happy by themselves to make eachother happy." I'm positive I don't know the whole story, but I'm going to be hitting the two year mark with my bf, and we have our own lives that eventually intersect with eachother. We make eachother happy for the most part and understand homework and time constraints. And also, I definately know how you feel about old friends. It's sad. I just moved 600 miles away, so I feel disconnected sometimes. But sometimes I'm just greatful for the chance to start over with new people.
Yeah, I'm thinking that it is that and I like how you put a few things there... It seems like it would work best that way - but the difficulty is getting that point across. I know it needs to happen, and soon... As we both need to focus in on homework. There are other things that I also need to do to reorganize my time, and that will come soon as well. And you are right, starting over with new people is awesome - but there are always a few people with whom I want to always keep in contact for many reasons - which I am sure you feel the same sometimes. So where did you move to then, if you don't mind me asking?
I don't know. I've just found great friends who I can be apart from and literally not talk to for a month and then just pick things right back up where they were. That is so nice.
I have "moved on" to Pullman, Washington. It's south of Spokane on the Idaho border. I just love it here at Washington State U. I know only one other person from my highschool here and I don't even really know him. I was worried that I'd be lonely and homesick, but it just forces me to get out and meet really cool people, which has happened.
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And also, I definately know how you feel about old friends. It's sad. I just moved 600 miles away, so I feel disconnected sometimes. But sometimes I'm just greatful for the chance to start over with new people.
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I have "moved on" to Pullman, Washington. It's south of Spokane on the Idaho border. I just love it here at Washington State U. I know only one other person from my highschool here and I don't even really know him. I was worried that I'd be lonely and homesick, but it just forces me to get out and meet really cool people, which has happened.
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