It's always an odd sensation to feel your perceptions slide out from under your feet.. All your life this has been the unmovable man, the guy who would never, could never change. Who was either there, exactly as he's always been or was just.. Gone. That was what you'd come to view as facts, that either he would be alive, strong, stern, hard, or simply dead. Seeing someone we'd always believed to be invincible is an incredible shock. That's why many children or younger relatives are advised seeing dying family in hospital, because it's terribly hard to see someone you remember with life and vitality as being weak and helpless, moreso if they had an important role in your life.. I hope he recovers soon hon and that you feel better soon too, will you be staying to help care for him until he's back to full strength? *hugs tightly*
thanks for the post sweety, Im not sure exactly if I'll be coming when I planned to or later... it is quite hard to bring up the conversation when he's lying there in pain :(
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Seeing someone we'd always believed to be invincible is an incredible shock. That's why many children or younger relatives are advised seeing dying family in hospital, because it's terribly hard to see someone you remember with life and vitality as being weak and helpless, moreso if they had an important role in your life..
I hope he recovers soon hon and that you feel better soon too, will you be staying to help care for him until he's back to full strength?
*hugs tightly*
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it is quite hard to bring up the conversation when he's lying there in pain :(
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Im ok sweety, just shocked
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