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Jul 23, 2014 16:52


Hi people! How are you? Good I hope. Things are good here. Not much going on but I felt like it was time for an update.

Things with josh and I are good. We're working to make them great! Eventually we'll get there. I'm not even sure I'm the same person I was when we got married. I think over this year I've gotten bitter because he don't help as ( Read more... )

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mycat8mybrains July 23 2014, 21:43:57 UTC
Marriage is not easy lol. It has only been a couple of months since I got married and I love him dearly, but like you mentioned, it'd be great if he helped with things more. I feel like I shouldn't complain because he supports us financially, and he does wonderful things for me all the time, but he gets irritated when I ask him to help out with chores or anything /:

I'm sorry you are in a rut, it sucks.

But it is amazing that you have someone who loves your little girl as if she was your own. My biological father was a deadbeat and my mom's secone dusband adopted me when I was like 3. Even after they divorced he remained in my life and even gave me away at my wedding

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happilyinlove12 July 23 2014, 23:16:59 UTC
It always good to hear someone else say that marriage isn't easy. I always feel like my marriage is a failure when I have these feelings. I think all of us wife's are fighting the same battle.

Yes this rut does suck.

Josh is the only dad Julie has ever known. Brian had visits with her for a year but he didn't do anything with her. It was sad.

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jes0704 July 24 2014, 01:41:14 UTC
I would have to say that I am one of the lucky ones because my relationship and marriage has been pretty easy. I don't have to ask Sam to do anything, he just does it without me even asking and it's been like that for the last 5 years, and I honestly don't think that would ever change based on the type of person he is.

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goalkikinpunk12 July 25 2014, 11:30:08 UTC
So happy for you about the adoption. I'm sure that's a load off your shoulders

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happilyinlove12 July 30 2014, 01:35:02 UTC
It's a major weight off my shoulders.

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happilyinlove12 July 30 2014, 01:37:31 UTC
Most days I agree it's worth it. It's just not as easy as I expected it to be.

I am feeling much better. Thanks!

Babywearing is my new addiction and it's becoming an expensive one.

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