A question for you guys

Feb 15, 2010 05:13

I was supposed to have a first date with this girl on wednesday but she had to take a rain check as it's her niece's 5th birthday, so we'll re-schedule. Anyway, my question for my friends on here is - if after sending several texts back and forth yesterday, and i don't even get a simple 'Happy Valentine's Day', despite the fact that i'd sent that ( Read more... )

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samphirette February 15 2010, 12:13:02 UTC
Until you officially have a date I wouldn't worry about the lack of Valentine's correspondance. She may genuinally not feel like saying it, or may be feeling in an anti-valentine's mood. Regardless of how much you are probably currently friends or have in common she may simply not be a person for celebrating any commercial holiday until she has unshakeable feelings for someone.

Some people take a while to build up to that type of thing. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you.

If she avoids re-scheduling, then you have to consider that she's getting cold feet on taking things to the date level

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redbipolar February 15 2010, 15:23:13 UTC
^what Sam said. Twas pretty much along the same lines as what I was gonna say but adding "yeah I know I aint a guy but from a girls prospective blah blah blah" but without actually writing blah blah blah of course.
Don't fret just yet.
Hope the raincheck does happen though and goes really well.
xoxo

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violetfrosting February 15 2010, 18:16:41 UTC
Yeah, too soon, dude. If you haven't even "officially" dated yet I'd let that one slide.

Good luck :)

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happyguru February 16 2010, 03:31:31 UTC
Guess i've been single too long and just paranoid ;) Cheers guys

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samphirette August 10 2010, 14:46:06 UTC
I've been waiting for the update on this. How are you? xx

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britbratnz February 16 2010, 05:38:21 UTC
Like I can really offer advice. But, don't fret. What happens happens.

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