Last night was one of the worst nights on record for me, But to truely understand why, I need to tell you what happened the day before yesterday
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Hon, how long have you two been together? Because that's going to influence whether or not I advise you to kick his ass to the curb. Because that's one of the most ridiculously insensitive and hurtful things I've ever read about someone doing.
**hugs** I'm sorry he's treating you this way. Maybe it'll just blow over and he'll see the error of his ways? Stay strong. :)
Re: thank you jess'karatherfreakishMay 2 2007, 18:19:14 UTC
Hm.
Of course my first instinct is to say "fuck a bunch of that, you deserve better." However, I know it's hard to give up on someone. So...honest to god advice? If you're not sure if you want to leave him over this, then don't, at least not immediately. Give it some time and see what happens. But don't forget about this, either. And whenever you do talk to him again, make sure he knows how assholish of a thing that was.
He seemed like a nice guy, too. But, seriously, if his reaction to "Honey, I got raped" is "OMFG I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU LIED TO ME" and not "Oh my god, are you okay?"...fuck him.
You need to earn his trust because you got raped? How does that even make sense? Someone needs to slap some sense into him.
I love ya baby doll
anonymous
May 2 2007, 18:17:05 UTC
Of course, we've talked about this before. I'm so sorry to hear that he took it so badly, but maybe if you wait it out a bit and let him cool-off, he'll come to his senses. You are a great catch and he's lucky that you care so much about him. He's got a lot to think about and so do you. Time will tell, but until he is ready to realize the support you need right now, know that I'm always here for you. Love you honey.
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**hugs** I'm sorry he's treating you this way. Maybe it'll just blow over and he'll see the error of his ways? Stay strong. :)
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Of course my first instinct is to say "fuck a bunch of that, you deserve better." However, I know it's hard to give up on someone. So...honest to god advice? If you're not sure if you want to leave him over this, then don't, at least not immediately. Give it some time and see what happens. But don't forget about this, either. And whenever you do talk to him again, make sure he knows how assholish of a thing that was.
Or you could just punch him in the nuts. ;)
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Can I borrow your Lesbeam?
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You need to earn his trust because you got raped? How does that even make sense? Someone needs to slap some sense into him.
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