I was thinking of you today. One of our researchers leaves us shortly, at the end of a fixed-term contract. He and his wife are looking forward to a lovely, if hectic summer: a week after he finishes, they go to meet their children - a 3 yr old and a 7 month old. They'll have nearly a month together before he starts his new job. I'm so pleased for him!
I've been trying to think of what advice I wish we'd been given, before SH was placed. If I could go back and do the last eight months again, I'd make sure that Mr H and I both had the chance to get away and unwind, just for a couple of hours, at regular intervals, and that we arranged evenings out more regularly. We're doing it now, but it's firefighting after months of exhaustion, and we really should have sorted it out sooner.
Only one so far (and that was to an Adoption UK support event ... sigh). We have had two Sunday lunches out though, which have been very much needed (and probably better than an evening out, in some ways).
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I'm marvelling at his blissful innocence. It must be wonderful to have never heard of Tony Blair.
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I was thinking of you today. One of our researchers leaves us shortly, at the end of a fixed-term contract. He and his wife are looking forward to a lovely, if hectic summer: a week after he finishes, they go to meet their children - a 3 yr old and a 7 month old. They'll have nearly a month together before he starts his new job. I'm so pleased for him!
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I've been trying to think of what advice I wish we'd been given, before SH was placed. If I could go back and do the last eight months again, I'd make sure that Mr H and I both had the chance to get away and unwind, just for a couple of hours, at regular intervals, and that we arranged evenings out more regularly. We're doing it now, but it's firefighting after months of exhaustion, and we really should have sorted it out sooner.
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I haven't got that one sorted yet!
But I'll pass that on.
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