A spinster's take on relationships

May 02, 2009 06:12

It has been one of those long, hot sleepless nights, with a lot of stuff on the mind ( Read more... )

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snobahr May 3 2009, 08:35:52 UTC
That is what makes for a successful relationship (at least, the one I share with chronovius, and have since 1987). Everything you wrote is true. I'd like to add that we're not afraid to have stupid fun with eachother, the sort of fun that a casual observer would scratch their head and go "WTF?" over us doing (because we're too old/fat/whatever), and we're not afraid to show our dorky sides to eachother. We trust eachother enough to be unashamedly silly.

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hawkhaven May 3 2009, 14:29:41 UTC
Thank you.

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snowweasel May 10 2009, 05:02:56 UTC
Quite right, quite right, on all of what you stated. Also one must have trust. While yes there may be a time where trust is stretched thin, which is possible; it should always be there.

And I most hardly agree with Lady Snobahr as well regarding the fun. In fact we just pulled down the tree completely so there is no danger of it falling on our house again, and in doing so left a large hole in the ground. That with all of this rain will soon be a very muddy water hole. My hubby Girmalky, is "threating" to get me in it to go "mud wrastlin' ". I DON'T think so :)

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hawkhaven May 11 2009, 01:18:40 UTC
Oh, go ahead-as long as YOU get to hose him off afterwards *Evil Grin*
I'm glad the tree is gone. You are safe now. :-)

And you are right, as well-but trust should be one of the primary blocks on which to build your mutual love. If you cannot trust someone, you cannot truly love them. Lust, yes, but a love to center your Life? Trust. a necessary building block, indeed.

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