Comments | head_cheese: and there she was

head_cheese

and there she was

Jan 22, 2007 13:40

Funny thing... On the way to Wickpub I was talking to my friend Tom, saying how I was pretty sure I was going to answer the ADPhi door and be face-to-face with Taryn ( Read more... )

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suddenleap January 22 2007, 19:21:52 UTC

I would say you should talk to her, especially if she's trying to get in touch. It might suck a lot, but it will make things better in the long run. In my personal experience, nothing good has ever come of not talking to a person I cared about about important things between us. And hey, maybe it won't suck so much.

head_cheese January 22 2007, 22:19:04 UTC

Good advice. She hasn't really been trying to get in touch quite yet, the door thing was a fluke because her best friends lives like 1 room away from me. That's the thing about the way this worked out, I really have no idea where she's coming from.

suddenleap January 22 2007, 22:24:02 UTC

I really have no idea where she's coming from.

That's exactly why I think it'll do you good to talk to her, even if it was just chance that caused the meeting you mentioned. Based on what you've written, it seems like you got about zero closure on that relationship, and I think that getting in touch with her is the healthiest way to get that.

head_cheese January 22 2007, 22:54:50 UTC

High five, if they apply here. I'm in agreement, I'm just trying to figure out what form this talking thing shall come in.

That dog picture in your icon looks photoshopped, but I would love to believe that it's real. Well, in a way. Poor dog.

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bluegreenery January 23 2007, 03:20:38 UTC

Dude, you a) need to talk to me/anyone, and b) stop drinking so much. Your liver will be upset with you. Also, you need to just talk with her and find out what the deal is, which I know is mad hard but you've got to bite the bullet. You might feel like you're sort of masochistically enjoying the being sad shit, but if you let it go on much longer it's going to start feeling like the norm, which is no good at all. Call me if you want to talk about anything.

head_cheese January 23 2007, 09:05:34 UTC

Yeah, I know. It's hard to get in touch with without seeming to have ulterior motives, which I may, for all I know, actually really have. And I don't really know what to say. I agree that the proper diagnosis is lack of closure, it's just hard to figure out how to get it.

bluegreenery January 24 2007, 05:42:12 UTC

Ulterior motives? What kind of ulterior motives could you possibly have except for wanting to let your feelings out to someone who has no bias?

head_cheese January 24 2007, 16:14:08 UTC

Ha ha. I was talking about getting in touch with her.

I have no excuse for not calling you other than my general occupation as slacker.