Comments | heanie: People

heanie

People

Jun 29, 2003 13:52

I've been thinking a lot about the people in my life recently. There are a lot of people that I would call friends, but my relationship with each of those people are very different. There are only a few friends that I would go to, to talk about the things that are really bothering me. I usually go to Matt, but that's a given. And because I go ( Read more... )

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tabloidscully June 29 2003, 17:58:28 UTC

I don't want to sound paranoid, but I have an inkling that this entry, in part, might have been directed at me. If not, then write it off as me in an irrational state. If it is targeted at me, directly or otherwise, let's talk about it.

I will say that, regardless of all that, one part of your post I thought I should point out.

I dont expect people to know when I need them. They aren't telepathic. There are times I believe that in very serious situations friends should step in without a doubt, but I know that if I feel as though I need my friend's support, I should seek them out. They aren't telepathic and don't always know when I really could use them and when I would rather work things out on my own. And most of the time, I would rather just work things out myself. I realize that everybody is different that way, and in other ways, too.Generally, I agree with you. I shouldn't expect everyone and their mom to know I had a bad day. But since I did mention it in my last post (and this is the paragraph that made me suspect it might ( ... )

heanie June 29 2003, 21:09:32 UTC

It was not directed at you, but your post was in mind as well as several others over the past several weeks. I guess what I am trying to say is that not all of your friends will act in the same manner because they do not have the same relationship to you. If you are aware enough to post that your friends are not doing enough for you and you know that you need them to be there, then call. Do not put all of the responsibility on them. It is also hard to tell when you need help sometimes because one post your write that your having a hard time, and then the next you write how you had an awesome evening with friends, and vice versus. So to me, I feel like you are having issues, but friends are already stepping in. To me, you seem busy, but I dunno ( ... )

tabloidscully June 29 2003, 21:33:53 UTC

Part of the problem with calling is that most of the numbers were deleted in the ‘Post-Steve Purge,’ and I haven’t felt like posting a ‘Everyone Give Your Number Out Over the Net’ entry. I just figured that eventually they would come back up ( ... )

heanie June 30 2003, 15:55:08 UTC

"To be honest, I was kind of hurt that you didn’t respond..." ,"Yes, the truth is I don’t want to talk much about Steve, but I didn’t really want to talk about his actions."

Truthfully, I was fully planning on replying to that e-mail, but the very next day you wrote the post on how you didn't want anybody to talk to you about Steve's actions, and that is what the e-mail you wrote me was completely about. So, I thought you had closed that issue and I didn't want to go there after you specifically asked us not to. It was nothing against you, just more trying to abide by your wishes to help you cope a little better. I wish they had etiquette books for this sort of thing.

amy0catherine June 29 2003, 18:45:54 UTC

Hi...not much to comment...just thought I'd say I'm glad to be your friend and you rock LOL :) Remember to scream if you need ANY wedding help...with that said I remember being the bride vividly and understand if there are things its just easier to do yourself ;) I'm here for the other stuff!

heanie June 29 2003, 21:12:50 UTC

Well, I have "Thursday Nights With Mom Nights" where we get together and work on wedding stuff, but there is not much going on right now. But, you're definately on my list when the work rolls in! ;) Thanks!

marykathryn June 30 2003, 07:26:17 UTC

It's Marza:
Let me know if you need anything and I'll fly up in a second.

heanie June 30 2003, 15:56:08 UTC

I need you to come on the float trip! Eh?

sarahkatheryn June 30 2003, 09:09:50 UTC

I miss you. . . I should call and say hi. I need to do a "reason I haven't been at bowling" post because the beautiful mikie called to check up on me and I just emailed back. . .either way. . I miss you :-D, not too much to smile about except that you posted on LJ and that was exciting to me. . .its the little things. . .;)
love
sarahk
PS oh and the Finding Nemo icon above my posting. . LOVE IT!!! Whoever you are LOVE YOUR ICON!!!