Comments | heart_songs: I am a Birth Mother!!!!

heart_songs

I am a Birth Mother!!!!

Aug 08, 2007 02:28

I have a child living in this world I do not know. She was born to me at a time when I didn't know who I was or what I was going to be when I grew up. My dreams for my child reached the moon and beyond, and I knew I couldn't begin to offer her the moon, let alone the beyond ( Read more... )

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coinoperated August 8 2007, 08:29:17 UTC

I'm sorry. It must be hard for you to think about it.

heart_songs August 8 2007, 15:07:13 UTC

You know honestly it isn't hard for me to think about. I was pissed that someone had the stupid notion that adoption=abuse.

coinoperated August 8 2007, 15:08:34 UTC

That's crazy! People can't win - abortion is abuse, adoption is abuse, what can one do?

heart_songs August 10 2007, 23:31:07 UTC

One can make the decion for themself that is right for them....

I am so sick of judgemental assholes, who want to tell me what I should have done. This is my life, and I made a choice that was right for me at the time. I am a completely pro choice gal. I happen to have chosen to be pro life for myself. I am not conceited enough to dictate to another woman what she do with her life or her body. Everyone has to make a decision that they can live with forever. I personally, could not have lived with having had an abortion, but others could not live with the notion of giving their child up for adoption. This doesn't make my decion any more right or wrong than another womans decision, and visa versa.

az_starshine August 8 2007, 16:13:44 UTC

I have so much respect for you, Karri. I can't even explain exactly how much...I don't think I can put it into words.

(((hugs)))

heart_songs August 10 2007, 06:36:28 UTC

I know you can't expain, I wouldn't expect you to be able to...Honestly, if my daughter is half the woman you are today, all my fears will have been set aside.