Life....

[heatherkat9781]

Beginnings are great, middles require work, endings are sad, memories are what the world runs on. On saturday i talked to a very nice lady. I let go of my bitterness and decided it was time to as she put it honor what was instead of holding onto what isn't. I feel freer. I realized I wasn't as upset ad I thought. I was lonely and hurt. They have

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Nice Entry

[clare_de_lune]

Sounds like you have done much processing. I dont know if this helps, or if it even makes sense: One thing i have realized over time is that when a break up occurs, it usually doesnt mean one person is wrong or bad or evil. It just means some one has changed, entered a new part of their journey. It often has absolutley nothing to do with what, how, why, where the other person in the relationship is. But everything to do with whats happening in the leavers head. Sadly, we often demonize the other partner in an attempt to tell ourselves its ok to leave them. We do things we later regret. Relationships are hard. The pain sometimes seems like it isnt worth the reward, but it is, in the long run. I applaud for your work here. Time and all that thinking on your part will continue to shape your perspective. One thing that is sometimes hard, but has been useful for me, is to think back to past relationships and say "what gifts did i receive here?" What was positive, how did i grow, what makes me feel warm and fuzzy when i think

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[heatherkat9781]

Thank you. It makes perfect sense. I feel that is kinda what happened. @hug@

[dolphiebaby]

I am proud of you sweetie ....Life is a lession and sometimes its gotta hurt to be a good one like love ...... We are here for ya
Love ya

[heatherkat9781]

Thank you for being here for me. love ya too. Hugs.

[albuq_rose]

Wishing you every blessing. ::HUGS::