Update

[heatherwt]

I figured since I haven't posted anything recently that I should. Things have been ok. I have been busy working on a website. It will be a while before it is up so everyone can see due to unseen circumstances. things between me and adam arent going so great. and adam is in denial about it big time. Last night we got into it again and I told him

Comments

[ragekat]

Its crappy that things arn't going well. I think you should go home...if anything you guys could use a break

luke? tell me more.

[heatherwt]

I really could use a break. LUke is one of my best friends from high school. We dated for a short while and then he "came out"..lol. He is still a great friend and he has been really close to elijah. Your wedding looked amazing! I hope you get a chance to come up here for a weekend. That would be great!

[i_am_frail]

Well one piece of advice is that you shouldn't let outside influences affect how you are going to handle this with your husband. Your family is your priority and even though your mom wants to help you - running away from the issues won't solve them.

Be careful where you let your heart wander as well, sounds like this emotional departure might be more than a "just friend?"

Gah I hate it when I sound like Dear Abby, but I know the Navy doesn't help families out, I've been there too.

[heatherwt]

LOL, about Luke, he is gay, so there is nothing to worry about there. We have always been close and he is really close with my oldest. And the only reason I am thinking about going to bama is to take a break cause there, there are a lot of people to take the kids for a couple days and let me relax. Here I have nobody to do that.But thanks for the advice./