The Past

[hejji]

You know what really sucks? The past. It's this ever-imposing part of everyone's life full of regrets and bad decisions.

And since we can't change the past, it ends up killing us inside when we think about it, so we try not to think about it.

Which in turn makes it worse when it crops back up. And it REALLY SUCKS if you have something from your past

Comments

[nishiox]

It's really unfortunate for each person involved in those sorta things, and can take a long time and a lot of those nights spent talking to them about your relationship, past or present.

It's not the case for everyone, but a lot of those things for me have just sorta faded with time. I've forgotten so many fights and discussions and how I've affected someone and the other way around. It's difficult and tiresome to keep thinking on the past and eventually your memories are replaced with something else - even if it's much further down the line for most people.

These things are natural though, they're possible consequences from the start and that's why so many people have those sort of situations happen. You can't always prevent and control them, just have to figure out the best way to deal with them. I hope you find a good way to do that!