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[hellmaster05]

Having some weirdly intense problems with my ex-bf of almost... 10 years now. Ahh...
He friended me on fb, so I friended him back because I wanted to be normal with him. But I didn't talk to him... just responded to his friend request.
He started leaving weird/awkward comments on my fb, which I ignored.
Yesterday he suddenly left 15. 15 messages in

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[asaphira_sachi]

Waahh this guy is definitely trouble.

Well, for one, I would rec to lock this entry in case xD

I think...pretending that you forgot him might've give him more excuse to talk to you... so maybe you should say along the lines of "It's great I inspired you to do something, but you're creeping me out. I'm moving on with my life. I have nothing to do with yours or your girlfriend's, so I suggest you move on too. I will use higher measures if you continue to harass me"

Has your mom unfriend him :|?

[hellmaster05]

Nah~ he can't find me here. He doesn't know my Hellie screenname. Ohhhh I like your suggestion!! That's kind of exactly what I was trying to think up.

Idk if my mom unfriended him. I told her she should, but he went to the music school she worked at, so I think it's hard. ORZ

[kyraensui]

He does sound mentally unstable, but at the same time, he can't move out from the past. As much we like to ignore, but we have to take it in some consideration that it would be dangerous to ignore the signs.

Just ignore the fool, but if he insist of bothering you over at FB, report it to FB themselves about it to see if they're going to do about this situation. Bothering your mom was already crossing the line.

I agree with Sachi with the message.

[hellmaster05]

MY GOD please tell him dat! I tried so many times to get him to move on (back when we broke up), but he won't, and blames all of his failures in life on me. ORZ
And yeah, bothering my mom was def crossing the final line. Not cool.

[kyraensui]

He doesn't want to admit his own wrong so he's blaming you? I do not want to know how he's raised up for not admitting his own actions.

I feel like it's a drama starting already.

[hellmaster05]

Thank you!
I've been ignoring him, (mostly because I don't even know how to reply to any of his nonsense) and I think it's working because he's been quiet now, although it was after he sent me another 7-8 bletheringly long messages. Hah, I have a lot of backup plans if ignoring and "please leave me alone" messages don't work.

1.) Tell him I have a 8-ft tall black football player bf who likes to do Judo and snipe people in his spare time.
2.) Friend his gf on fb and be extremely friendly, or just plain creepy on her.