upper back, like between the shoulder blades, but H said the lower back was a popular spot. so i guess i was being a little original by putting it up higher. who do know who has one? does it have the leaves and a pink flower? mine does, but it is a little different than the flower that was on the wall. H said he always trys to makes them a little different in one way or another. it is kinda like my other flower. the first one i got. about the size of a half dollar. anyway...