Two can play this game ...
I tried to play fair. I really did. Some people just don't want to give it the fuck up.
Hollie says:
i don't appreciate you taking my friends only entry and making it public
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i don't appreciate you not honoring my request to freeze the comments and allowing me and my pregnancy to be attacked either
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i specifically asked you to, and you ignored me
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
your post was a one liner and i only included comments i was involved in
Hollie says:
doesn't matter how long it was. that was privledged information and you made it public
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
what was said to me wasn't priviledged
Hollie says:
it was friends only for a reason. when you make friends only entries hwo pissed would you be if someone made that public?
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
not very
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
if it was something i wanted kept that secret, i'd have made it private
Hollie says:
ahh ... whatever. s'okie. doesn't involve me THAT much right ... it was only from MY journal ...
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
so why didn't you freeze the comments?
Hollie says:
is that what you do when you don't get your own way? did you post this to get back at me?
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
no i posted it because it was relevant to my bad day
Hollie says:
i didnt freeze the comments because i didn't want to. that's called censorship.
Hollie says:
you COPIED AND PASTED part of my friends only entry
Hollie says:
that's not the same thing
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
censorship? it's called having a bit of decency for a person being blatantly attacked...which obviously you don't have
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i'm not deleting the entry
Hollie says:
i didn't ask you to delete it. i'm just quesitoning your motives here.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
there are not motives. it pissed me off and was relevant to my bad day...hence it being posted
Hollie says:
in full. that's what pisses me off. you could've left me out of it and you didn't.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
you contributed to it, that's why you're there
Hollie says:
i posted the link. you said you stood by what you said. i thought we agreed to disagree.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
we did. but there are 2 other people on your friends list who thought otherwise
Hollie says:
and i speak for them ...? no, i don't. i don't censor them either. you're a big girl... stand up for yourself.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i did
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i don't see why you're pissy at me
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
and really, i don't care that you are
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
a one liner with a link is hardly anything to get your panties in a knot about, imo
Hollie says:
i've told you why i'm "pissy". you violated my trust.
Hollie says:
okay ... once again ... you took a friends only entry and made it public. This is why i'm pissed.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
be pissed then.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
what do you want me to do about it?
Hollie says:
i want you to think before you post
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i'll write what i please in my journal, thank you very much
Hollie says:
... and yet you expect me to censor my other friends
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i asked you a simple question, the least you could have done was reply to me
Hollie says:
why? so that could turn into a fight w/ you too?
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
no, because i thought you would care that someone was blatantly attacking my pregnancy...i guess i was wrong
Hollie says:
and i thought you would care that friends only meant friends only
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
and now your little buddies are spamming my journal
Hollie says:
thats what you get for making it public, yes?
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
hollie, if you're going to be petty and trivial about this...go away
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i'm not in the mood for another stupid online debate
Hollie says:
i'm sorry, i don't think this is petty and trivial. but hey, if you don't wanna talk about it, whatever
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i don't because it's not an issue to me and frankly, i don't care
Hollie says:
you say you don't, and then you put it in your bloody journal b/c it's part of your 'bad day'. you need to make up your mind. i'm sorry if you were offended ... i was too. i can't undo it.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
putting it in my journal does not mean i want to discuss it with you. i use my journal to write about my day and t his happened in my day. it was not an invitation for you to start an arguement with me
Hollie says:
i didnt mean to start an arguement. i thought i'd be civil and bring this to you personally.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
well you brought it to my attention, and now i'm through discussing it
Hollie says:
fine. have a good nite.
Now tell me that wasn't out of fucking spite. I didn't do what she wanted so she threw a fit about it.
Guess i'll have to be a little more selective of the people i allow to read friends-only entries. Ya know ... Just incase they decide to throw a hissy fit and think it's okay to COPY AND PASTE a friends-only entry and make it public.
So ... If any of you think you can't have mature, civil debates without resorting to name calling and the like, can't stand up for yourself, or think i should have to fucking choose between my friends, just step the fuck aside now. Save us all a little bit of time here.
I'm sick of fucking babysitting people. If you don't agree with something, say so. If you can't back your shit up, that isn't my problem. If we agree to disagree, don't fucking turn around and make it a whole big fucking issue later. If you have a problem with me, bring it to ME. What a fucking concept, eh?
I tried to play nice. I really really did. I took the issue to her personally rather than making it an issue on her journal ... Where my replies likely would've been deleted anyway. Apparently she prefers the drama.
I'm sorry it had to end over something so fucking STUPID ...
And yet, i can't help but feel a little relieved. At least i'm rid of it all now ...
(Just a recap ... incase you got lost in all the HS BS drama ... It's NOT okay to copy and paste one of my friends-only journals and make it public in your own. I don't care what you think you can do in your own journal, if you value my friendship at all (and hey, who wouldn't, i'm cool, right?), you wont do that to me. I know ... you'd think that'd be a little decency and common sense, but apparently i've over-estimated something somewhere. And got screwed over by it. Let this be a lesson to all ... )
Hollie says:
i don't appreciate you taking my friends only entry and making it public
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i don't appreciate you not honoring my request to freeze the comments and allowing me and my pregnancy to be attacked either
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i specifically asked you to, and you ignored me
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
your post was a one liner and i only included comments i was involved in
Hollie says:
doesn't matter how long it was. that was privledged information and you made it public
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
what was said to me wasn't priviledged
Hollie says:
it was friends only for a reason. when you make friends only entries hwo pissed would you be if someone made that public?
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
not very
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
if it was something i wanted kept that secret, i'd have made it private
Hollie says:
ahh ... whatever. s'okie. doesn't involve me THAT much right ... it was only from MY journal ...
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
so why didn't you freeze the comments?
Hollie says:
is that what you do when you don't get your own way? did you post this to get back at me?
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
no i posted it because it was relevant to my bad day
Hollie says:
i didnt freeze the comments because i didn't want to. that's called censorship.
Hollie says:
you COPIED AND PASTED part of my friends only entry
Hollie says:
that's not the same thing
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
censorship? it's called having a bit of decency for a person being blatantly attacked...which obviously you don't have
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i'm not deleting the entry
Hollie says:
i didn't ask you to delete it. i'm just quesitoning your motives here.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
there are not motives. it pissed me off and was relevant to my bad day...hence it being posted
Hollie says:
in full. that's what pisses me off. you could've left me out of it and you didn't.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
you contributed to it, that's why you're there
Hollie says:
i posted the link. you said you stood by what you said. i thought we agreed to disagree.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
we did. but there are 2 other people on your friends list who thought otherwise
Hollie says:
and i speak for them ...? no, i don't. i don't censor them either. you're a big girl... stand up for yourself.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i did
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i don't see why you're pissy at me
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
and really, i don't care that you are
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
a one liner with a link is hardly anything to get your panties in a knot about, imo
Hollie says:
i've told you why i'm "pissy". you violated my trust.
Hollie says:
okay ... once again ... you took a friends only entry and made it public. This is why i'm pissed.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
be pissed then.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
what do you want me to do about it?
Hollie says:
i want you to think before you post
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i'll write what i please in my journal, thank you very much
Hollie says:
... and yet you expect me to censor my other friends
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i asked you a simple question, the least you could have done was reply to me
Hollie says:
why? so that could turn into a fight w/ you too?
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
no, because i thought you would care that someone was blatantly attacking my pregnancy...i guess i was wrong
Hollie says:
and i thought you would care that friends only meant friends only
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
and now your little buddies are spamming my journal
Hollie says:
thats what you get for making it public, yes?
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
hollie, if you're going to be petty and trivial about this...go away
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i'm not in the mood for another stupid online debate
Hollie says:
i'm sorry, i don't think this is petty and trivial. but hey, if you don't wanna talk about it, whatever
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
i don't because it's not an issue to me and frankly, i don't care
Hollie says:
you say you don't, and then you put it in your bloody journal b/c it's part of your 'bad day'. you need to make up your mind. i'm sorry if you were offended ... i was too. i can't undo it.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
putting it in my journal does not mean i want to discuss it with you. i use my journal to write about my day and t his happened in my day. it was not an invitation for you to start an arguement with me
Hollie says:
i didnt mean to start an arguement. i thought i'd be civil and bring this to you personally.
Mommy to Be 18wk4d says:
well you brought it to my attention, and now i'm through discussing it
Hollie says:
fine. have a good nite.
Now tell me that wasn't out of fucking spite. I didn't do what she wanted so she threw a fit about it.
Guess i'll have to be a little more selective of the people i allow to read friends-only entries. Ya know ... Just incase they decide to throw a hissy fit and think it's okay to COPY AND PASTE a friends-only entry and make it public.
So ... If any of you think you can't have mature, civil debates without resorting to name calling and the like, can't stand up for yourself, or think i should have to fucking choose between my friends, just step the fuck aside now. Save us all a little bit of time here.
I'm sick of fucking babysitting people. If you don't agree with something, say so. If you can't back your shit up, that isn't my problem. If we agree to disagree, don't fucking turn around and make it a whole big fucking issue later. If you have a problem with me, bring it to ME. What a fucking concept, eh?
I tried to play nice. I really really did. I took the issue to her personally rather than making it an issue on her journal ... Where my replies likely would've been deleted anyway. Apparently she prefers the drama.
I'm sorry it had to end over something so fucking STUPID ...
And yet, i can't help but feel a little relieved. At least i'm rid of it all now ...
(Just a recap ... incase you got lost in all the HS BS drama ... It's NOT okay to copy and paste one of my friends-only journals and make it public in your own. I don't care what you think you can do in your own journal, if you value my friendship at all (and hey, who wouldn't, i'm cool, right?), you wont do that to me. I know ... you'd think that'd be a little decency and common sense, but apparently i've over-estimated something somewhere. And got screwed over by it. Let this be a lesson to all ... )