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[hellsangel4283]

I guess I thought maybe if I posted enough good stuff then maybe the bad stuff wouldn't haunt me as much

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You're definitely onto something

[quietriotgtrgrl]

I hate the way that things seem utterly and completely unbearable at times. you're always given the assurance that through the bad times come something more worthwhile. Sometimes I wonder if that's true. Somethings don't seem to mend with time. It's like they disappear instead.
I don't know, I guess disappearing could be better in a sense. At least it won't get any worse if there's nothing there to deal with.
But you're right, things get better. It just takes a lot of work.

Re: You're definitely onto something

[hellsangel4283]

through every storm is a rainbow, if you can just stand strong and weather it. Another common concept is that God wouldn't put you through anything that you couldn't handle. I don't know.

I think it also depends upon how you look at things. If you have a pesimistic attitude, then things won't ever get better.

I don't know if things ever truly completely disappear. Normally they always come back at some point in time to haunt you. [shrugs] But I don't know, maybe they do occationally.

Re: You're definitely onto something

[quietriotgtrgrl]

You're right. It depends on how you look at things. There are different outcomes to every situation, I suppose.

I don't htink everything comes back to haunt you--only the bigger things. Like I can completely forget a small argument if I don't let it bother me, but at the same time, numerous bickering is hard to let go of between the same people.

Really, I think it depends on the situation and the person. I do believe that things get better in a sense. You learn to deal and cope with things.