A Certain Calmness.. for now

[hellsphreak]

Things are calming down a little. By what is close to a miracle, we were able to get all bills caught up, including three car note payments. We have just enough to last a month more, but Lyle needs to find himself employed very soon.

But for now, I can breathe....

Our marriage is sort of on the back burner. Everything else takes priority, it seems

Comments

[kowechobe]

And they kill sanity too. Our 3 year old has decided that she no longer knows how to feed herself and whines constantly, which just kills the romance or sex drive. ARGH.

[disgruntledgrrl]

Well seems to me it's time to make one of the kids pull their weight and allow you and the man me-time. If Lyle has no job then there should be opportunity. At age 11, I did have to babysit my siblings so my mother and step dad could be alone.
Definitely don't trust it at first. 30 minutes (so you and Lyle can just talk privately) about 2-3 times, then an hour (Maybe watch a tv show) about 2 or 3 times. Mainly to not only earn your trust but to get them use to not running to you.

You can do this. It's a Puzzle. The time is there, just slide around a few things.