I'm on stand-by...

[heniya1121]

Just when I thought everything was peachy-keen, someone upstairs threw a wrench into my happiness. If you've read the post about my birthday, then you have a bit of an idea as to why my nerves took a beating this past week. No calls (except like 1 or 2... ok I'll give him credit for the call on Saturday night, so I think it's up to 3 now) or

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[panda5984]

I think theres only 1 of 2 explanations here. Either A he has something really personal going on that he doesnt want to talk about, but is affecting him deeply. or B he isnt ready to move forward and doesnt know how else to say it. Either way-he's retarded for not being honest and giving you the run around. I mean yeah guys are hard to understand, but he shouldnt be so puzzling on purpose if he really likes you. If youve already honestly tried to communicate to him that youre lost about how he's feeling and not understanding his actions...then theres nothing more you can do. I wouldnt stress so much over it, just wait it out a little longer if you really like him...emphasis on little. But dont spend so much time worrying about figuring him out...if he doesnt eventually let you in-then his loss and move on...but odds are he might just need a little time to see what he wants.

[purplefairy83]

I agree with Mandy. Personally, I think he showed his shady side in ATL with the whole trying to score ex fiasco. And now this?

This is what I've learned from my past relationships. In the beginning of my relationship with John, things were already rocky from day one...something was off and it didn't feel right. In other words, I had a feeling in my gut that something was wrong, but stayed in the relationship anyways and wound up unhappy.

My point is...you KNOW something isn't right here. The right guy will never make you question him or doubt yourself. So in agreement with Mandy, give him a little bit more time to come around, then move on. You can do better than this. You need a guy to treat you like a princess. And he'll be there one day. Till then, I still love you. *HUG*

[schmatalie]

guys are stupid. i swear, this was me a year ago (and no, i have no secret, i guess the 'right' guy just sorta waltzed into my life- i had no control over it) anyway, don't waste time, energy, and thought into all of this. if he likes you, he will come around. try to go about your life as you normally would. (not so preoccupied) i spent so much time into this one guy (or like, 10 guys) and none of them ever came around. no matter how honest i was or what tactics i tried to use. i guess they either like you or they don't.