Skeebs Does an Emotional Evaluation ---or---Was I Wrong or Just Misguided?

[heniya1121]

I'll admit it---I've been wrong about things before.  In fact, I have a knack for screwing up a good opportunity just by opening my mouth and letting words spill out.  And a month ago that was what I did.  Being a highly emotional person has its disadvantages, especially if their hearts are excellent purveyors of propaganda.  Each time a situation

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[purplefairy83]

You know, halfway through the entry, I knew what advice I was going to give you, then when I got to the part about the friend boy, I realized you were already taking it.

I used to be like you...only feeling the negative aspects of love. I never thought I could find the positive aspects of true love, but I did. I just had to open my mind and heart to a boy that I otherwise would never have glanced twice at. And it worked. I also kept some emotional distance from him for the first month...not letting myself get attached, and quietly observing him and how he demonstrated his feelings for me...almost as an outsider, to have an unbiased view of him. I suggest you do the same...for every boy, from here on out. Its not as hard as it sounds. And my third piece of advice...once you start to feel it, don't overanalyze it to death...just sit back and let it wash over you. You'll feel much better.

Oh yea...and listen to your friend Shona more often. ;)