have you had your heart ripped out?

[herblackbox]

well...im having a horrible time getting over my ex.
please share experiences about break ups...if you can ...bad ones. thanks, i need something to bring me back to myself.

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[time_kill]

my darling.....i luv youuuu. We all go through it, unfortunately....but ends of good things lead to begginnings of new good things, but only if you allow new things to happen!!! life is too short to sulk. try to just understand and respect why it came to end, remember what you enjoyed and learned during your time together, try to remain friends if you can..afterall he did mean something to you and you him, so even if your not "the one" for eachother your at least something....you can be there for eachother and always have the chance to still at least converse when you need him, afterall what is a relationship other than an amazing friendship with added bonuses...the bonuses are not as much of a loss as the actual person, so friendship is always good..... hold it all as a good time in life...but on to more experiences with new interesting young males. Your beautiful, your smart, your fun....seek out someone that you find equally or even more interesting hun.........change is hard, but good. (if all else fails you can become a huge dyke

[psychieinadress]

it may not seem like it now rachel, but it is for the best, im sure. they say it takes years to get over someone - you know, a year for each year you were together, and i think that is pretty much true. its been five years since i was with my first love, but every few days i see something that reminds me of him. and it doesnt hurt anymore. it just makes me wonder how he is.

the last real boyfriend i had is dead. that one hurts the most.

all i can say is i kept a journal with all of my feelings, everything i felt and wrote it all down for as long as i felt i needed to. in the end i had a book and two livejournals full of shit. and somehow i got over it.

its best to be on your own for a while. you are still young, beautiful, intelligent, and awesome. a boy will come along when you are ready for it. spend this time focusing on your wants, needs, and desires. everything else will fall into place. it always does. you just have to trust in that. and in yourself.

much love. <3