ummmmm,

[hermitsrme]

i am trying to find the possitive gear to my brain and i must admit that it is an elusive bastard!

Hey, what do you do to keep positive?

or, what do you do to stop being negative?

any and all answers gleefully acepted.

thanks.

Comments

[windypoint]

Go do something useful even if it isn't something useful that deals with the thing that is making me upset. Go do something I enjoy. Try something new. Downgrade my expectations to something that is more reasonable under the circumstances. Focus on something or someone other than myself. Work within my limitations. Set a small goal. Take a warm bath and read. Daydream. Do something that lets me enjoy my competencies. Do something that makes a noticeable difference to my world... hang curtains or weed the garden. Do something physical... dig in the garden or do some shopping that will require me to walk a fair bit.

windypoint

[hermitsrme]

that makes sense.

Ha, ha, ha; i am finding enjoyment to be equally ellusive; yet the work on the painting this morning was okay.

Yes, something new; a friend of mine said i should do japanese drumming; why, because it is something new and it would get me involved with other people.

My user name does say a fair bit about me.

You do make sense, thank you.

it is a tangled web that i am trying to clear away.

Ahhhhhhhhhh...

Yep,something physical...

All good stuff, thanks.

[blinkytreefrog]

Wanna join the roleplaying game I'm running? Pretending to be someone else once a week is surprisingly relaxing!

that could be fun

[hermitsrme]

A roleplaying game, sounds interesting.
It's not too serious is it?
Pretending to be someone else could be good.
Where and when?
What rpg is it?

Re: that could be fun

[miyako_ling]

Ohhhh goto www.secondlife.com
hee hee yes I second that sometimes going into a rp really helps give the brain a break.

You have read my posts about being a Elusive Geisha on Sl. Did you enjoy the photo graphs?
ha ha maybe you can come and be my Sl husband *wink wink*

Re: that could be fun

[hermitsrme]

giving the brain a break sounds good to me

i remember your posts about being an Elusive Geisha on Sl.
Yes, I did enjoy the photographs and shall revisit them while on line, cheers!

your Sl husband, that made me smile; thanks heaps!!

I wonder what I would look like?

[miyako_ling]

Wooo dont get me started preaching

[miyako_ling]

And Whoops heres a big lovy dovy hugg from me to you!!!
Smooches!!

reply to Smooches!!

[hermitsrme]

gosh, i have never had anyone put a comment like this in my journal before, 'And Whoops heres a big lovy dovy hugg from me to you!!!
Smooches!!'
my reply a big lovy dovy hugg gratefully in return

Re: reply to Smooches!!

[miyako_ling]

Aww well I am glad I brightend up your day ^^