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Peter- So I'm guessing my 2nd to last journal post about how much I love Danny secretly means I abuse him, right? Apparently you know nothing about love, or our relationship. I guess your pseudo-intellect worked great this time. Thanks for being an amazing guy!
I know you're probably feeling ganged up on, but if what I've heard is true, you kinda deserve it. All I did, for Danny's sake, was send him a few links to information about abusive/controlling relationships. I let him make his own decisions based on that. From what I've picked up, his relationship with you hasn't been the sweetest, and Danny seems to get into relationships where he is miserable and controlled. Now, tell me Amy, if you're not truly controlling him, then why are you so scared of him assessing your relationship reasonably? I'm not here to be an amazing guy for you, I'm here to be a good friend for Danny. Can you truly blame me for giving some objective advice? When I talk to Danny, I truly try to be understanding of both sides, but when a person crosses the line, fairness goes out the window in favor of realistic logic. The plain fact is, unless Danny has been lying to us to get a rouse out of his friends, you are wrongfully restricting him in who he hangs out with and when, and that is a sign of a controlling
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Giving objective advice to one who asks for it, is completely blameless. However, you're neither objective, nor did Danny come to you for your abusive relationship self help crap. It's none of your business as to what I have said to my boyfriend, and I certainly am not bound to proove anything to you. Regardless, it's very sweet of you to play the role of the objective, altruistic friend taking in both sides of the story, but I don't recall you talking to me at all before you forced your way into our business. Your 'realistic logic' is flawwed, in the sense that it's not realistic, and it's not logical. I can certainly see the maturity, too, in sending abusive relationship information when "I never really assume exactly what happens between you and Danny." Not only does that sentence make no grammatical sense, but it also contradicts the following sentence! The bottom line is, our relationship is our business. Regardless of what I say, he will always have the choice to decide what he wants to do, so you may want to save me a giggle,
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Hey, it's not MY "abusive relationship self help crap". The sites I gave him were universal definitions of abusive/controlling relationships. Also, how am I supposed to talk to you when I never come in contact with you? And why should I if I'm just giving Danny advice? I hardly ever butt in on your relationship with him, but when I do, I try to make it constructive and to-the-point. And how do you know my advice isnt objective and altruistic? You really dont because you're not there when I talk to Danny. Once again, Danny has the right to talk to me about his life and I have the right to give him my input. I'm still not sure why you're labeling my advice as flawed and illogical, because you still dont know what advice I give him. Like I said, if those websites apply to your situation, then there's a problem and you work to fix it, if it doesn't apply, then no harm done, right? You can just forget about it if I was wrong. It isnt an insult to Danny, it was a genuine act of help/guidance, and I dont believe I was wrong in offering it.
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So I'm guessing my 2nd to last journal post about how much I love Danny secretly means I abuse him, right? Apparently you know nothing about love, or our relationship. I guess your pseudo-intellect worked great this time. Thanks for being an amazing guy!
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