Comments | heteroheretic: Here's the thing...

heteroheretic

Here's the thing...

Sep 13, 2006 20:45

I sense this sort of barrier between me and many people (not all). I don't quite know what it is, so I ask you...

What prevents me from getting closer to people? What prevents people from getting closer to me?

If you have any idea, let me know.

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cowasocke123 September 14 2006, 03:05:49 UTC

I think it's because you take too long to get ready. Hurry up!

jimmy_exploder September 14 2006, 20:09:00 UTC

hahhhahahhahhhaahha

heteroheretic September 14 2006, 22:07:48 UTC

Fuckers...

jimmy_exploder September 15 2006, 02:28:39 UTC

"I'll be ready at 3."

Four hours later, we are hurrying you out the door.

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aholeinyourhead September 14 2006, 09:56:07 UTC

People are Selfconcious. Selfish. Selfless. Blind. Jealous. Fat. and Fearful.

The problem with all this is, it makes it hard to get close to other people.
Let alone meet them.

That's your barrier.

Smash the shit out of them.

jimmy_exploder September 14 2006, 20:09:23 UTC

fat?

aholeinyourhead September 15 2006, 11:31:20 UTC

I just threw that in there for ShitGiggles

jimmy_exploder September 15 2006, 13:41:52 UTC

ew. i giggle when i shit!

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jimmy_exploder September 14 2006, 20:10:19 UTC

Honestly? Now you can't get angry, because this is just an opinion, Peter. You are asking.

heteroheretic September 14 2006, 22:09:13 UTC

Better to know sooner than later, right?

I mean, if your response is more appropriate privately, you can email me or tell me in person or something.

jimmy_exploder September 15 2006, 02:27:43 UTC

It is very hard for some people to take you seriously. I think you know this. Even though you are one of the most intelligent and well read people I know, many can't get past the goofy first impression. It's always, "Peter! Oh, I love Peter, he is so funny." The people that matter know you have a lot to say, but they have to have known you for a while to get to that point. I know I am the same way, and I am not saying this is a bad trait. I just know that I sometimes eliminate the option of being a softy/worth-while friend by the way I act too. People have told me this. I thought it would be helpful to you also.

heteroheretic September 15 2006, 10:47:08 UTC

No, I know this. It's just a habit from years of goofiness (which I never really want to kick). I think I lack situations with some people where deeper/more serious conversation can be had. But I suppose since we're both funny as fuck, we can get away with it...

Maybe I don't make enough effort to create these situations? Maybe I don't make enough effort to hang with people one on one? I suppose these sorts of efforts are uncomfortable or seem too straight-forward with some people, but fuck fear, eh?

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christkills September 18 2006, 05:52:53 UTC

you could try not throwing shit at their fucking heads.

heteroheretic September 19 2006, 01:27:27 UTC

Ah but that will just bring us closer, Rich.