Comments | hey_rubella: "someone new would be so cruel.incurable paranoiac. hysterical depression..."

hey_rubella

"someone new would be so cruel.incurable paranoiac. hysterical depression..."

Jul 26, 2005 19:36

I've upped my requirements for girlfriends. well, as far as dating + fucking go, they just have to look good + be clean. not all of these are completely new, but a lot are ( Read more... )

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crashtestcase July 27 2005, 00:29:00 UTC

dear karen,

best list ever. i used to make list requirements too. also, that picture of the two of you is adorable.

xo,
one of your hussiez

hey_rubella July 27 2005, 04:15:18 UTC

thanks. ansley thinks it makes her look bad, which it kind of does, but I think in an amazingly cute way so I kept it up. lists of all kinds are pretty great to make....

I love that spelling! sometimes I am pretty great.xo

crashtestcase July 27 2005, 08:47:41 UTC

all the time you are great!

sex_criminal July 27 2005, 02:13:54 UTC

my list: (i italicized the ones that are the same as yours.)
not passive aggressive (this is really because I am, + two passive aggressive people in a relationship fail. except Karen + my beautiful friendship)
must understand that i cant drink, so going out EVERY night may not be particularly fun for me (though, i will go out... just not ALL the time)
no cheating on me/being dishonest about sleeping/kissing/etc. with other people
understands that we cant be together all the time (aka, has separate friends, vice versa)
needs to be able to apologize + admit they're wrong when they are
has to help me with things or just offer, even though i wont let them 95% of the time...
has to be a decent-looking girl or a really really greatlooking boy?
understands that just because i am dating them, that my top 3 friends will come before them, until they earn it (meaning, just because they are my sig. other, they dont automatically come first)
can't be too judgmental about lots of things
STD free
should be content a lot of the time by doing nothing ( ... )

hey_rubella July 27 2005, 04:19:57 UTC

I agree with all your additions. clinginess kind of falls into the same category as "we can't be together all the time." those are all pretty important. actually I don't care about where I sleep on the bed, I'm torn on which side works better for me. I mean. I'm REALLY torn.

+ alcohol applies too, just cause I don't have an ID. but also I don't care about blowing so much money at bars, + also I don't care for the bar crowd entirely too much most of the time....

xsarahberry July 27 2005, 03:42:44 UTC

has to help me with things

like making ultra gay icons?

hey_rubella July 27 2005, 04:21:11 UTC

I do that all on my own. unless I steal them. like the monchichi.

actually, I don't want to have a girlfriend/boyfriend who knows anything about livejournal probably. it's not a good thing to have in a relationship. or we'd have to never know about each other's. cause they're horrible things...

xsarahberry July 27 2005, 04:31:03 UTC

yea, I see your point... I guess that's why I never write anything of importance in my lj. I try to remain a mystery... hahaha, not really, but just slightly ambiguous.

hey_rubella July 27 2005, 07:01:44 UTC

I say more on livejournal than I would ever actually say, probably. it's a bit unhealthy. false impression.

dublinmoon July 27 2005, 06:51:32 UTC

i think u made a pretty fair list there.

"should be content a lot of the time by doing nothing"
haha amen.

"has to have mean-but-funny sense of humor"
u should hang with me and steph!

hey_rubella July 27 2005, 07:02:58 UTC

it's really fair, according to me. but I tend to settle.

pshh, you ladies live in Louisiana, + I'm talking about a relationship outside of livejournal. ha

dublinmoon July 27 2005, 16:49:56 UTC

haha yeah i think if i were dating someone i would be too embarrassed to tell them about my livejournal!