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[hiding_me]

I am absolutely terrified...i am seriously so scared right now and i don't even know if i should be. Leaving everyhthing i have ever known behind...my MOM and Dad, my friends...my best friends who i wouldn't be here without. School, lack of responiblity...everything that my life has been to just go to something completely different....and how do i

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[usamonkey]

I'm in a similar boat right now. I've a big move coming up in a week...is it going to work out...is it this...is it that...it can be a bit overwhelming. I guess you kind of just have to roll with it, ya know.

Yeah...that was all kinds of helpful and inspiring.

[tradskin_g]

Juddy,

listen to me. This voice of experience that's made life decisions and moved around and has done all sorts of the things you're terrified of.

THERE ARE NO WRONG ANSWERS. Nothing can't be taken back except getting yourself killed or getting someone knocked up. You're growing up to be master of your own time. To go out and make a world of your own design. Of course you don't have a fucking clue what that's like. Of course it scares the hell out of you. But it doesn't have to. The thing about having responsibility is that you're responsible for what's around you. When you hate something, you change it. You feel like you shouldn't go to church, then don't. You don't want loans? Don't take them out.

Don't be scared of what you have absolute control over. It's the other things that should scare you.