Dating for the sake of dating

[hikobunta]

People date for a lot of different reasons, but I'm only going to talk about two. First off, there are people who date in the hopes of finding their soulmate. Someone they can spend lot a good majority of their time with getting to know them and really developing a connection. These are the people that look at dating as a prelude to a serious

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Dating sucks.

[kungfuspecial]

Usually when I get into a relationship it just happens naturally. It clicks. Dating, on the other hand, sucks. I hate it. If it's going out for lunch, it's going out for lunch. If it's dinner, it's dinner. If it's a date, I'll spend most of the time overanalyzing everything. And I already do that by myself, so what's the point of doing that with the additional stress of an undefined relationship? Well, that's my take on the matter.

Expencive?

[stebany]

Yah, isn't dating just for fun expencive? If I went out with a guy and I thought there'd be no future, I don't think I'd pay. Although if I were to go out with a guy who was a friend first, and we're trying to make a lasting relationship I'd for sure may for my part.
...Just saying.

ugh

[moumoku]

Yea I've been trying to balance both... because I have commitment issues seeing as how I know that I won't be getting married in the next decade. There's too much pressure sometimes but then no one really understand the concept and has the same outlook as I do. They get confused, tie me down and take me too seriously. They have problems understand I don't want to wandered, I just want to have a good time without feeling tied down to something potentially temporary. Bleh.

I second that dating sucks.

Umm, Yo

[mowbli_cat]

Stop looking for your soulmate man, just have fun and be meaningful foolio.

Umm, Yo

[mowbli_cat]

Stop looking for your soulmate man, just have fun and be meaningful foolio.

[gumbysmirks]

If you date often enough, you will find your "other half". But enjoy dating while it lasts. It'll never be the same once you settle down :(