oh Hillary, how well I am acquainted with your dilemma. As for Jen's patented advice on getting boned (copyright pending), the biggest thing I can say is that you have to put it out there . . . hardcore. What do I mean by that? Well, I know we have some friends in common who are not particularly attractive or sex gods or every teen boy's fantasy, but they get action all the time. And I puzzled over why they got so much action. And then I figured out what it was. They literally take every opportunity that presents itself to go for it. They do everything short of announcing that they are willing to get naked with whoever it is they're hitting on. And the trick is not to get discouraged, because they get turned down a lot. But they also get taken up on it a lot. I think you specifically, because a lot of people think of you as the peppy, bouncy, funny girl, really really have to be brave enough to make a first move. Cause people are less likely to make a first move on you if you're the 'funny everyone is my friend' type. I,
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