Do you think she might become physically violent when you talk to her? If so, what about the friends you were talking about her to? Would they be willing to be there? Best of luck with that.
Are those 4 o'clocks?! they are beautiful. Did you grow them from seed or roots?
Thank you for your kind reply. I hope I didn't make this sound more dire than it is. Well, it is a mess.
I did talk with the alcoholic friend (Pam) today. I only stated some of my concerns--the most urgent, I think. She heard me. She wasn't t mean about it. I am not sure she really gets it, but she's trying.
I also talked to the friend from Saturday (Debbie), who really kinda reamed me about how poor my boundaries are around Pam. I didn't agree with all that Debbie had to say, but it's good to get some perspective.
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Are those 4 o'clocks?! they are beautiful. Did you grow them from seed or roots?
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I am so sorry. I hope you find a way to deal with this that lets you feel safe.
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I did talk with the alcoholic friend (Pam) today. I only stated some of my concerns--the most urgent, I think. She heard me. She wasn't t mean about it. I am not sure she really gets it, but she's trying.
I also talked to the friend from Saturday (Debbie), who really kinda reamed me about how poor my boundaries are around Pam. I didn't agree with all that Debbie had to say, but it's good to get some perspective.
Life . . .
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