I have never heard anyone fight like this!

[hildwyn]

Our upstairs neighbors are insane. I've never heard it this bad. Yelling, screaming, pleading, crying, bam, boom. Now it's gotten relatively quiet. I wonder if they moved it to the living room? Odd thing is, he was the one pleading last I heard. "I love you, I love you, I'll do anything..." Is she holding a gun to his head or something? What the

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[two_sheds]

Perhaps, despite the very small portion of their interaction that you're privy to, they actually love each other?

[hildwyn]

Then their idea of love is very different from my idea. My idea of love does not involve threats and throwing shit, ever.

[two_sheds]

People often have different ideas on things. Doesn't make them wrong. You can't imagine loving a person but being really angry at them or their actions to the point of saying things you don't actually mean and throwing things?

I'm not saying this is the case. Just a thought.

[hildwyn]

No, actually. Yelling and throwing things is not in my relationship vocabulary. If Garrison were to yell at me, or throw something at me, I would be taking a long leave of absence. I would expect the same of him if I were to do such a thing. I consider these things abuse.

For me, love has very little to do with feelings, and everything to do with action.