To be angry or not to be angry...

Mar 28, 2005 12:53

So, I'm going to keep it real. And I hope nobody gets offended. I can't decide whether I should be mad at someone or not. I should be b/c she kissed my boyfriend multiple times days after we broke up. And it's not like she didn't know. But, he did actively persue her. However, she isn't with him, maybe b/c he didn't want her, and she is now with ( Read more... )

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noleman99 March 28 2005, 18:38:14 UTC
KEEPIN IN REEEEEEEAL!!

Okay, I'm going to just put this is real as I can. As hard as it is, you should not let it bother you. You're a great person, who deserves better than what he could give you. The more you let it upset and bother you, the more you're letting him have control of your mind and not letting yourself move on. It's hard, trust me, I know....I just went through something similar. You need to find a way to live and let live (or die, whichever they choose to do). Once you do that, you have no idea the great things you'll find on the other side of the door!

On another note, it is way too gorgeous of a day to be stuck behind a desk!!! ARRRRRRRGH!

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kizelley March 28 2005, 21:24:37 UTC
Im sorry that I've hurt you and that you're still hurting. I REALLY am. I feel terrible, even after all this time. I hope that you remember too that only a couple days after the "incident" took place, I came to you and apologized face to face at that party for everything. I dont want you to think I didnt feel bad or that I didnt want to at least make it as right as I could. It took alot of courage for me to do that bc I was completely embarrassed of myself. I want you to know though that I regret what happened 100%. And there is obviously nothing there between us. I love Jeff - and that's that. I understand that all this stuff is very hard to deal with, but I hope you will accept my apology cuz I would hate for this to keep us from being friends.

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his_x March 30 2005, 20:03:17 UTC
I know you apologized, and I accepted it. I just didn't know if you knew what you were apologizing for. Thank you so much for understanding. I think I can finally get past this all and move on. And I definitely think we have the potential to be good friends. I don't know how Jeff would feel about that. But anyway, I'm glad you and Jeff are together. I hope that you will teach him a lot about love, compassion, and how to treat other people. Best wishes.

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alpinesumo March 30 2005, 19:41:02 UTC
1. It is my understanding that when two people are broken up, they stake no claim on one another. Were YOU broken up or was he?

2. Greg is a grown ass man. Don't try to hold someone else accountable for his action or non-action.

3. Clearly I'm with kelley only because greg let her go, so be careful getting close because you never know when he might go changing his mind. Greg's crazy like that.

4. Kindly refrain from referencing my family ever again and remove my name from your vocabulary.

5. I dislike you because you lack the good taste and judgement to not say the things that you do. I can tell you this because it does not hurt my feelings for you to dislike me. When people ask me about you I refrain from comment. When you are over, I avoid interaction. I was told that if one has nothing good to say, he should say nothing at all. Don't mistake this for masked hostility. I bear you no ill will and wish all the best for you.

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dontwasteit March 30 2005, 19:59:49 UTC
1. Even when two people are broken up, there are still rules that should be followed.
2. It takes two to tango. Obviously she had no problem taking accountablity for her actions.
3. Greg and I aren't close anymore, thanks.
4. Jeff, oh sorry I said it again. Maybe I should have specified when I posted this that I didn't care to hear your opinion b/c I should have known you would post something like this. If you are offended about what I said about your parent's relationship, don't worry, your mom and I have already discussed it many times. Maybe you should try talking to her some time. And I will remove it if it makes you that uncomfortable.
5. As far as my good taste and judgement, everything that comes out of my mouth is the truth, something you obviously can't handle. I'll be the first to admit that I haven't always said the right thing, but that happens to everyone. Why don't you take that stick out of your ass and lighten up.
Oh and Kelley is a great girl. I wish you two the best. Stay out of my journal.

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dontwasteit March 30 2005, 20:23:13 UTC
Oh and if you care, which I am sure you don't, this happens to be a really hard day for me so thanks for making it worse.

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