Okay, I've obviously been out of the dating world for a couple years, in fact I've never been on a blind date before, so as you can imagine I'm freaking out over here
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Choosing what to wear is a BIG DEAL, SRSLY. I get it, because I'm a girl. lol I agree with everyone else and would go for the jeans and the nice sweater, too. Dress to impress! This is your first impression on the guy.
And here is SOME DATING ADVICE THAT DOESN'T INVOLVE JUST CLOTHES. Since I'm such an expert at this. (Hah! Pull the other one! Dating is kind of a necessary evil for me.)
This is easier said than done, but the best advice I can give you is to RELAX. You know the person everyone turns into when they're nervous, the really self conscious one that feels stupid whenever she talks? Try to avoid being this person. lol Be comfortable and confident...and even if you feel the opposite of this, fake it 'til you make it. Don't worry too much about what he's thinking, or trying to impress him. Only focus on having a good time and getting to know this person a little better. If you enjoy yourself, he'll enjoy himself, too.
:) This made a lot of sense, and actually made me feel a bit better too! It's incredibly nerve wracking, and that person that comes out when we're scared isn't fun. It's just awkward meeting someone that you've never met before and trying to talk to them. I'm hoping that he's semi outgoing, otherwise I'll be doing all of the work lol. Thank you for this! And no worries, I'll be posting an update after!
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And here is SOME DATING ADVICE THAT DOESN'T INVOLVE JUST CLOTHES. Since I'm such an expert at this. (Hah! Pull the other one! Dating is kind of a necessary evil for me.)
This is easier said than done, but the best advice I can give you is to RELAX. You know the person everyone turns into when they're nervous, the really self conscious one that feels stupid whenever she talks? Try to avoid being this person. lol Be comfortable and confident...and even if you feel the opposite of this, fake it 'til you make it. Don't worry too much about what he's thinking, or trying to impress him. Only focus on having a good time and getting to know this person a little better. If you enjoy yourself, he'll enjoy himself, too.
Good luck! :D And tell us how it goes!!
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Thank you for this!
And no worries, I'll be posting an update after!
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