Comments | hislittlegirl: 6 months

hislittlegirl

6 months

Dec 08, 2007 10:22

Funny how much your life can change in 6 months. For the most part it has flown by. now looking back, I just don't know how I have gotten thru these past 6 months without Jimmy. I miss him more and more everyday. The more things change, the more I want them to stay the same. I keep thinking this is all a bad dream and I will wake up, but no this is ( Read more... )

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cumm_slut December 8 2007, 17:01:07 UTC

I don't know how much time is considered 'normal' to grieve, or when you will be begin to feel whole again. I think that what it is very personal.
I can only imagine what you are going through, and how you are feeling.
I do think (from reading your previous posts) that Jimmy would want you to try to be happy again. I'm not sure how you do that, but maybe it will sneak up on you, bit by bit. One day, you will be able to smile without the tears when you think of him.
I'm glad that you do have family and friends, and your pets, to be with you during this time.
Can I ask, are you seeing a counsellor, or a thereapist? It might help to have a sounding board. When my Dad passed away, his wife was on meds for about 9 months, just to help her along. It's not for everyone, but it does work for some.
I wish you the best. Please know that I am thinking about you.
Hugs.

br0ken_dolly December 8 2007, 17:23:25 UTC

thank you for adding me. i'm going to return the kindness.

i'm glad to see you back. i've thought of you and wondered how you were doing. you're a very strong person to live through such a tremendous loss.

i would really like to be friends.

mymstrslave December 8 2007, 22:02:27 UTC

i looked at your profile again and was touched by this ( ... )

1_strangeman December 11 2007, 13:36:50 UTC

6 months is nothing. It takes often times more than a year. And it's not that you'll be over it, it's just that it will become more bearable.

You have my sympathies.

lordmachiavelli January 2 2008, 05:35:27 UTC

This entry is a little dated, I realize you may not read this comment. You've been reading me for some time I suppose, but how is it I've never read your journal before? I'm a little floored right now, it's after midnight and it's now been a month for me. I've added you to my friends list.

LM

yes I do read hislittlegirl January 6 2008, 15:20:52 UTC

and I did get your comment I will add you as well.