man 2016 sucks so far.

[holdnothing]

A week and a half ago, Tybalt started breathing weird and stopped eating food. I got the first available vet appointment, but it was after I took Sidda in for a hurt hip, which turned out to be nothing beyond needing rest and anti inflammatory meds. I now regret waiting because Tybalt has heart failure and his chest was filling up with fluid. We

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[jendotcom]

oh love, please don't look at it as you failing! the kindest thing we can do for our animal companions is to be compassionate and to make decisions that are not about our own feelings, but about theirs. you have given tybalt an incredible life that any cat would be lucky to have. when it is time to make that decision, nothing will make it easier as you know, but just remember that once the meds stop working and his pain is outweighing the good parts of his life, you will be doing him a real, selfless kindness to end that pain for him.

you know i know how it feels. i love you. call me anytime, ok?