Loralyn

[hollow_helix]

I love Loralyn.

But not in the same quality of spirit by which she loves me.

And that is why I had to end our relationship.

To carry on otherwise would be dishonest to both of us.

There were two things that make this especially difficult.
One, is that this was Lyn's first functional relationship, at the age of 26. The problem lies in that she wishes to

Comments

[welllookatthis]

Why did she want kids so soon? I mean, she had about 9 more years until she was 35, which is usually the cut-off date and when the pregnancy risks increase.
Hell, my grandma was 40+ when she had my dad and he came out okay...Okay-ish. You know how he is. :)

Sorry that things didn't work out. I know how it's a terrible feeling to have when you reach that realization...makes you feel like the shittiest person in the world...But, at least you realized that you did not want the same things and were mature enough to end it now and allow her the chance to find someone with a similar desire rather than drag it out with no intention. It was the best, most honest thing you could do in this situation.

I can't really think of anything else to say...kinda awkward...again, sorry...Imma exit over here... >_>

[hollow_helix]

I do not feel awkward at all.

If anything, I feel enlightened by the experience in a way.
Shoe is on the other foot, so to say.

I -sincerely- appreciate your sentiments. :)

[somexsalvation]

It sucks having to make that choice. It sucks that the choice is necessary. I'm sorry that life has to hurt sometimes.

If you need anything, you know our number.

The Truth

[triskeles]

I have to say that though it is always difficult for the other person to hear, the truth is the best way to handle these kinds of things. You did right by her in the end, and that is the best you can do in the situation.

I am sorry to hear that friendship may no longer be in the cards, though give her some time. She has to heal and move past this for now, and the best thing for that is time and space.

May you find the love of your life, be it in expression or in another soul my friend.