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[hollymayberry]

 someone needs to teach you some lessons on how not to be a fucking jerk liar ass hole.

in more positive news...

i got my new camera today. olympus sp560. i love 'er. been working with her all day and  figuring stuff out, some amazing features. i'm glad i finally went for it. prepare yourselves for a barage of picture posts. at least i've got cats,

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[belindajane]

come visit me in portland, we'll drive/train up to seattle and taste some pyramid brews right from the brewery! do it in the summer and we'll cross the street to a marine'rs game!

[hollymayberry]

oh god that sounds amazing!! we could do a brewery tour across the state!

[hollymayberry]

thanks susan. i think i am need of some girls nights out. and a night filled with a bottle of wine and crying :)

it just sucks when you know what you have to do, and you know the truth, but you just wish that it were different. but i guess some things are just the way that they are and you have to stop trying to change them.

[hollymayberry]

by the way...i must admit, i have been watching project runway this season :) but man oh man i can't stand heidi klum, she's really obnoxious...and i honestly don't think she has a brain in her head...she just looks so empty and soul-less!

have you seen "the shot" on vh1?

[mikeingram]

holly may

what the fuck is up

omg

mi

[hollymayberry]

hi hi hi, you're what the fuck is up!

i will be seeing you, mister famous, as you share the bill with one of the all time greatest bands ever later this month. my man gil mantera!

[semolina]

Holly, it's hard to break up with someone even if you don't love them anymore. But when you're miserable, you need to just man up and do it. It will hurt in the short-term and you might even feel like you made a mistake, but you know that it's for the best. You can't continue feeling like this. Please don't.

I love you!

[hollymayberry]

thank you miss jamie :) i feel liberated

[semolina]

Thanks, lady! I'd love to see your new do soon! You should plan a trip to Philly in the spring when it gets warmer and we can go out and do stuff without being miserably cold!

[semolina]

by the by...that hair?! fucking HOTTEST thing ever! i recently got mine cut too :) a very new fresh do that i love!

[emo_me]

i know we don't talk very much, but i would kind of really appreciate it if you didn't talk with jamie about anything in the realm of relationships. she has a somewhat skewed perspective on how to handle things and probably isn't the most reliable person to be taking your advice from. i know that you are very intuitive, but she can be highly deceptive, so just take everything that she has to say with a grain of salt. strike that, a silo full of salt.

i normally wouldn't say anything about who you are friends with, but it does upset me quite a bit to know that you would continue to talk to someone who hurt me so much. perhaps we could talk about this when i'm home over break?

Dude, just get over it

[emo_me]

Dude, you need to just get over it.

In the long run, it's not a question of whether they deserve to be forgiven. You're not forgiving them for their sake. You're doing it for yourself. For your own health and well-being, forgiveness is simply the most energy-efficient option. It frees you from the incredibly toxic, debilitating drain of holding a grudge. Don't let these people live rent free in your head. If they hurt you before, why let them keep doing it year after year in your mind? It's not worth it but it takes heart effort to stop it. You can muster that heart power to forgive them as a way of looking out for yourself. It's one thing you can be totally selfish about