I'm alive but barely...lol..I am tired from working all weekend, and I haven't gotten a chance to jump on here and write anything of substance anyways. So I have been trying to catch up with you all this morning and if I haven't gotten to you yet, never fear, I'll get there
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...Sweetie...'no man is an island', & you canNOT be 'the
only source'. You have a *LIFE* of your own...not 'only' a
*right* to it, but also, a responsibility to live
it to it's fullest. If you set yourself up (or allow someone
*else* to) to be available '24/7' support for others, you'd be
short-changing *yourself*, & the other people who matter
to your life.
You *already* 'GIVE' plenty, Lady - you go the extra
mile for your friend's... It's unfair for anyone to ask any
*more* of you.
I'm glad that things at work are going so well! - Albeit;
tiring!
I hope that tensions at home improve for you soon, Honey...
~**MUCH LOVE**~
Red~
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thanks for the compliment...I try to treat people the way that I would want to be treated, it's sounds so corny, but it's true.
thanks for always having a great ear, and a wonderfully comforting shoulder to lean on...you are a great friend girl....
~*love & hugs*~
~H~ ;)
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Monsters Inc is a really good movie...are you sure it wasn't enough?
**Giggle**
my 'M' got out of trouble with Monsters Inc a few weeksa go, LMAO!
If I can't be available 24/7 then my support and love doesn't amount to much. I don't know what to do.....
Is it either all or nothing? I guess so....That doesn't seem very reasonable to me. Gosh, if I felt bad everytime I didn't have 24/7 to be there for everyone I would feel bad ALOT of the time. It seems unfair and irrational to take it to heart too much. I don't know the circumstances so I can't say there might not be extrenuating circumstances for this particular friend or situation but for the most part you ought to be a little easier on yourself....it's not supposed to be 'All or Nothing'...think of it more as...'Better late then never' because your support DOES matter and amounts to so much to those of them who really need it. If it's needed that badly then it's worth just as much regardless ( ... )
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**Giggle**
my 'M' got out of trouble with Monsters Inc a few weeksa go, LMAO!
Now I'm LMFAO!!!! thats too funny girl!
Thanks..and you are right. I cannot be there all the time, and I shouldn't feel bad. You know sometimes I care too much for my own good. I don't ever want anyone to be in the situation that I was in, and have no one to turn to. But I know that it's also unrealistic for me to think that I can always be there when someone needs a friend......
thanks girl...I really appreciated your comment...it helped
and yah...I am s-m-i-l-i-n-g!!! Your little dance number worked!
~*love & hugs*~
~H~ :)
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Stick by your guns and don't give in. Just make him sleep on the couch for a few days and I'm sure he'll be good!
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oh....and as far as the hours, I'm so glad you and I can relate...
Seems alot of people got 9 to 5's.....
thanks dreau...you're to cute for words!
~H~ :)
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(but sometimes I wish I were one)
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:)
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I'm just a click away!
((((((((hugs))))))))))
~H~ :)
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I'm sorry, but I can't imagine that you would hurt anybody. How was it all your fault?
It's not "all or nothing" for everyone. For some, yes. We all have lives outside of LJ-land. We can't be around every minute of every day. Nobody's available 24/7 like that. We do the best we can. I'm just amazed that people who haven't even met can care about and support each other. Strange, huh? :)
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