Letter to nunewesen

Nov 12, 2009 08:42

Hello!
As a maintainer of the community name removed I regret to notify you that I have excluded you from this community. This does not go personally against you and is not meant as an offense, but for my taste I am far too often subject of your discussion with other people, so that I have decided to rather not have these people in the groups I maintain.
Sorry.
Regards,
Nunewesen

Dear nunewesen,
First off, I tried to reply to your pm directly, but apparently you have the privacy setting on, so I was unable to send this to you that way. This is the only reason why I have resorted to posting my reply to your pm in my journal like this.
I am hurt that you would exclude me on what I would describe as false pretenses. If I ever did talk about you, it was only in reply to wirral_bagpuss talking about you--and even then, it was rare. I never talked about you in my own journal (until this post, I had to make a new tag just for you). I always make my posts public except for two exceptions--and they are both set to private and neither one even refers vaguely to you.
I understand that you might (I can't possibly presume to know exactly what goes on in another's mind) only be doing this to prevent even more drama resulting from the actions of you, wirral_bagpuss, and the rest involved in this whole sordid drama, but I want to say that excluding people like this is not the way to go about things--but that's just my opinion.
I do hope that you will eventually change your mind, once you have gotten over this whole drama.
~h221b
P.S. I think that the only reason that I am in a position for you to feel threatened by me is because I have a big heart. I don't like seeing people in pain and being unable to do anything about it.
P.P.S. You hurt wirral_bagpuss' feelings, but because wirral is so willing to forgive you for hurting her feelings, I will not hold a grudge against you for that. Just wanted to let you know that not everyone in the world holds a grudge.

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