just a thought....

[holtz04]

well it's a plain and simple question in life that pops in and out of our daily lives frequently... and you'd think by now everyone would have the answer to this question... well if we all had this answer this world would be a better place for all of us b/c we'd all know what we want in that special person

Comments

come on

[anonymous]

Wow, I have been reading your journals from time to time and it always seems that you have postings about love and you questioning life. Im a few years older then you and I have a little advice to you. Calm down and just let life take its toll. You trying to make things perfect and trying to find the perfect person just isnt going to happen. Lets just face it, life isnt fair for most of us but bitching about it will not make anything better. Just live life to its fullest, someday something will change but for right now just have fun and do stuff that cant be done while tied down by a girl. Trust me I have had many girlfriends and there has been and still are times that I sit back and say I wish I was single. Just wait you will get your turn!!!! Dont let life pass you by while bitching about everything take all the good and make it better.

Re: come on

[holtz04]

well thanks for the feedback... but it's not gonna do any good... how do i know your life is any better or u even have the slightest clue on what i'm talkin bout if i don't even know u? what u can't put your name or anythin with your comment? i just don't understand it... but anyways thanks for the comment but that's not gonna change how my life is ... u only know what i'm goin through if u'd know what i'm really talkin bout... so... later

you've got a point

[hoovmysta]

hey holtz, i too have been reading your journals from time to time, and my response is, you have a point. PPl do think their image is too important. They also worry too much about what others think so it is easy for them to just say "she's not good enough for me". i guess that, as we all get older our values change, ppl start to think about character instead of "coolness" and such. In a way that "anonymous" person was right, the only thing to do now is to live life to the fullest and not worry about what's missing in our lives, in the end, everything will come together, and we'll find what we are lookin for, but for now all we can do is chill.

--ya friend, hoover

Re: you've got a point

[hoovmysta]

Yes I agree with Hoover. I just want to make it clear I was not making fun of you or busting on you in any way Holtz. You are right I dont know exactly what your going through but Im just trying to help you out from my point of view. Everyone goes throug things differently. Im just trying to help thats it. I fully agree with Hoover when he says that "image" is the first thing people look at in another person and I feel that thats wrong. Yeah looks are a big part of things but once you grow relationship wise Im sure you may look back on a certin girlfriend or any girl for that matter and wish you could have changed the way you were with them and the way you acted toward them. The inner-person is what really counts and makes a person happy. Even though I dont know you personally I feel I have come to know you very well through your journals leading to me wanting the best for you and your happiness. In conclusion I think you should get away from the "image" and look at reality in relationships/friendships/and life in general. I wish I

well...

[holtz04]

well it's alright to voice the opinion...but i still don't know u at all... plus i'm not the one with the "image" problem...it's the people that i try to have a relationship with... that's just the way it is...i really don't judge people for my image because i'm totally against it...so... well thanks for tryin to help... next time leave your name or don't post again...