sorry to right such a long entry but....
my friends joclynn's roomates name is eilen. eilen and her boyfriend (jo) have beeing going out for over a year and everything. i was taking to this girl alley who i thought i was friends with and told her that i did think jo was that cute. i didnt mean anything by it i wasnt judging a book by its cover. i just didnt find him cute, it was my opion. well ally went and told joclynn who then told eilen. while i was in my friend joeys room joclynn came up and was like eilen wants to talk to u(keep in mind i have no idea what this is about and i said that thing about jo a while ago...thinking nothing of it). well i went there and eilen started going off on me about how she lost all respect for me bc of what i said about jo and all this other stuff. and i look over and joclynn is still at her desk pretending to read and i asked her to leave bc i thought it was none of her business. but eilen wouldnt let her. after that eilen told me never to talk to her again.
this really upset me bc i thought she was really cool. i was mad about some of the things she said but she did have a point. but i was even more pissed off at ally bc she started the whole thing. and then joclynn she could have come and talked to me about it b4 telling eileen.
im gonna forgive joclynn but not forget and be carefull what i say around her. as for ally i dunno. there was this boy nick she liked and i really wanted to see them get together. so one night we were outside the dorm and nick and some guys were playing football, so i convinced alley to played and she had a really good time. then another night we were all hanging out on the 5th floor common area and i was sitting next to nick bc he just happen to sit next to me and alley was sitting w/ joclynn. and u know me and nick were joking around and talkin and i happen to find out the nick broke up with his gf. so when he got up and left i told alley that and she was like o good someone else u can flirt with. she's jokes around a lot but somethings she says are really nasty and i dont think they're ment as a joke.
i wasnt even flirting with nick i was trying to help her out. but w/e i duno what im gonna do. me joey frank joclynn and alley all hang out in a group and i dont wanna make things akward for the group. but i feel that alley owes me an apology for what happened with eilen. she knows she started a fight, but from what i've her she's not going to apologize which pisses me off. if i were single i'd go fuck nick and make it a full time career to make sure she found out.
what should i do about her, should i tell her off or be the bigger person?