Weigh things. Put it down on paper. Pros and cons. Even if you have more pros than cons, maybe the cons mean more to you than the pros. Usually seeing the situation in words helps. But hey, that's just me.
And don't forget that THIS Zach is there whenever you need me. ;)
Hey dear! Listen, I find your reasons all really really good. And the fact that you don't find him really attractive is not shallow at all. I think that you must find someone at least a little attractive in order to have a good relationship. You are so not shallow. Just go with your heart Bobby, and I think that you will honestly KNOW what you are meant to do. Looooots of Looooove, ~Kayla
I understand what you mean about the "not too intellegent" thing; that would probably annoy me too. And yanno, whatever, if you don't think this is gonna work you shouldn't have to force yourself to try and make it work. And like Kayla said: if there is NOTHING you find attractive about him then this relationship is doomed to failure from the beginning.
It isnt like I think EVERYTHING about him is unnattractive. Just a few certain things which throw me off a little.
I'm willing to go for it, it's just. He never has any free time, and as you may (or may not know), whenever you like someone, you tend to want to be with them constantly. That's my main concern.
Comments 5
And don't forget that THIS Zach is there whenever you need me. ;)
Reply
Looooots of Looooove,
~Kayla
Reply
Peace:
BRAD
Reply
I'm willing to go for it, it's just. He never has any free time, and as you may (or may not know), whenever you like someone, you tend to want to be with them constantly. That's my main concern.
Bobby
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment