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analplay I have been thinking about anal A LOT lately, and have been trying to work out a way to introduce this to my (mostly) vanilla hubby……last night was a great success
We started off with the usual touching, foreplay, kissing etc, then I decided to take control. I started sucking him, licking his balls etc, then moved slowly downwards (backwards?). I rimmed him with my tongue for a few minutes, and then slowly slid my right hand under his ass (I was kneeling between his legs), so my thumb was pressing against his ass (lubed with some KY). Then, as my sucking on his cock got more intense, I was able to gently slide my thumb a little way in. He was gyrating and moaning, so I assume he was really enjoying the sensation. He was also able to control the depth of the penetration so I think that helped to relax him.
After he was totally relaxed I changed position slightly so I could use a finger to massage his prostate. He was going totally wild by now, and losing all his inhibitions about anal play. Just before he was ready to cum, I stopped everything and sat on him. I rode him for a few minutes, and then kneeled down and licked and sucked again. It was very erotic, as by this time I was very wet, so I was tasting myself on him.
This continued for quite some time, then he kneeled over me, and I thought we were just going to do our usual 69, but he started playing with my ass. He slowly slid one (well-lubed) finger, then two into me, and the sensations were AMAZING. (I was relaxed and ready for the penetration, as I have been fingering my ass by myself whilst masturbating for some time, hoping that some day I would have a chance to enjoy the real thing).
From my position I was able to continue to suck his cock, and rim him with my finger. Next thing I knew I was having my first DP, he was sucking my clit and fingering both holes - I thought I was going to pass out, the pleasure was so intense. I had the most amazing orgasm, the sheets were soaked and I was on such a high.
Then he turned me over and entered me from behind, doggy-style, whilst I continued to rub my clit. It was amazing - everything I hoped anal would be, and everything I had fantasized about.
After he came, we lay on the bed and spooned for a few minutes, and discussed the latest developments in our sex life. Then we went for a shower together. I knelt down in the shower and he peed all over me (I love Golden Showers).
What a night. I hope this isn’t just a once-off event. Thanks to my friends here for giving me the encouragement to keep trying to “convert” hubby! It was definitely worth the wait.
I think the key to my success was allowing HIM to experience the amazing sensations of anal FIRST, instead of just telling him what I wanted. After he felt how good is was, he wanted to give me the same pleasure.