Comments | hornyheatherho: attraction...& good lessons

hornyheatherho

attraction...& good lessons

Apr 16, 2006 19:00

1. It's just one of those things. One of those things we can't always put our finger on. That's ok. At least I have to tell myself that, a lot. That it is OK that I don't know everything and can't read people's minds and basically that I am not in control of LOTS and LOTS of things ( Read more... )

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The grass is always greener... mirist April 17 2006, 04:19:37 UTC

I have always been a skinny chick, too skinny at times...I think once I hit about 130 and I was thrilled because I had some CURVES...but I could not keep the weight on...and while a lot of people give skinny chicks a bad time, we have the same problems other girls do, finding clothes that fit, being picked on for a lack of curves...hell, I am BUYING some...I went to a gym and just ended up getting muscular, to the point of not looking female, and well, yeah, our bodies, whatever shape and size, can be annoying...but at least you probably never get mistaken for a 15 year old guy from the back (I have, and damn, talk about an embarrassing moment)...Anyway, I think SEXY comes from within, and a sexy woman is sexy NO MATTER what she looks like, and of course it is what is INSIDE that counts for more than a one night stand or a fling...I say if you are happy where you are at, don't change it for other people...if they can't see what they are missing, they don't deserve it.

Re: The grass is always greener... hornyheatherho April 17 2006, 05:15:38 UTC

Thanks... you do so rock ;)

Consistency jeepbear April 17 2006, 05:23:26 UTC

Consistency is the cornerstone of any habit change, and in your relationship with food even more so ( ... )

Re: question for ya'll jeepbear April 17 2006, 05:26:03 UTC

Oh yeah...and I don't think I really need to answer this one here, do you? :-)

Re: Consistency hornyheatherho April 17 2006, 08:31:52 UTC

Yes, I so agree. It does have to come from within and be real true lifechanges. You bring up a good point with Bridget maintaining what was set out for her by her dominant ( ... )

Re: Consistency the_leaking_pen April 17 2006, 14:26:07 UTC

ditto. so snagging that line for use with a couple friends.

the_leaking_pen April 17 2006, 06:19:45 UTC

to answer the question, up to a certain point, i dont mind the leathery skin bit. to where the person receives a plus one to armor class, thats pushing it a bit.
as for weight, my ideal weight depends on the person. what looks good on their frame. i generally dont find extremely skinny women attractive, but if thats their frame, then i can.
and personally, id want someone who would want me the way im happiest. be it fat skinny ect.
/now, i did promise an ex while we were dating and i was losing weight that i wouldnt lose too much, beucase she wanted me still cuddly, and not a solid brick of muscle, but that was my intention anyways, i was just going to let her decide where the line was.