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[hornyheatherho]

This was so good, I had to post it in my own journal. This quote came from a certain lj user named Kittyums

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[abstract_savant]

Typical ex-fattie tripe. I hate it when people that lose weight get all high and mighty.

[kittyums]

It would have been nice if you had actually tried to contact ME (or read the actual thread) about what was occuring in this situation before making incorrect and negative assumptions. But people believe what they want to, whether it's just or not... and all I can do is state my case (if Heather is brave to unscreen my comment), and avoid those people.

bravery...

[hornyheatherho]

Yes, I am brave :)
he he he

my goodness..

[magiqnapa]

i guess i don't understand. we are talking about physical and mental health? That's going to be different for everyone.
its actually hard either way. i'm "skinny" and you all know i am not healthy. and no, i don't love myself either.
i need to get both mentally and physically healthy to stave off complications of other medical problems i have. i need to get physically healthy so i can live a longer life, see my children have children and be with both my husband and Master longer than what is pre-determined by my poor health and doctors now. i can only do this by hitting the gym. that's not being shallow, and avoiding it for me is not smart, even though it depresses me, i am lazy and will find any excuse not to go.
no matter what your weight is, is this not the motivation for getting physically healthy? so you can live your life longer with those you love/have the chance to find one to love?

Re: my goodness..

[hornyheatherho]

Absolutely. It IS in my book...

[chainblue]

I wandered to your page from from mirist's today and started looking around a bit.

Judging by the pics you have up, you look like a nice healthy, curvy woman, not fat. Who wants a twig-girl anyway?

thanks...

[hornyheatherho]

Thank you but my belly might argue with you. I am definately curvy and blessed to still have an hourglass figure. I am definately a fat girl, though too. Believe me I get treated that way and have been my entire life. I just want to increase my health and lower my risk of heart issues and diabetes. I want to prep my body for motherhood, as well. Also, I think that a lot of seriously good men will continue to overlook me, as they have historically. That, however, is NOT my real motivation.

And here is what *I* replied:

[kittyums]

First, I need to state that I wasn’t even going to reply to your catty, personal attack on me because I have no desire to further fuel your constant need for drama, but my sense of truth is too compelling; and I’m tired of being the target of your lies… the ones you’ve put here and the ones you’ve been telling T. and others

Re: And here is what *I* replied:

[hornyheatherho]

Yeah, my attack on you was personal... not your attack above obviously calling me a multitude of names, in capitals and spewing your anti-fattie crap was not an attack on me...oh, please. I suppose you did not specifically refer to me, which then makes this all ok? That is such total bullshit. Everyone who knows you knows you as Kittyums and you have your freaking picture posted, nonetheless. I will however, apologize for my oversight in using your name. I did try and edit this and asked T to do that on his end, if he could. I was unable to do so.
Since when did I blame you for anything to do with my relationship with T? Are you nuts?
I have not "failed" at anything, nor am I looking for a scapegoat, thank you. I have not lied about anything to T or anyone else.
You obviously want melodrama in your life or you never would have posted on T or my lj to begin with. If you left lj to *avoid* this...well, you aren't doing such a good job are you? Do us all a favor and LEAVE.

lying and cheating

[hornyheatherho]

Funny, I thought cheating was considered lying... Of course I have never cheated in a relationship, so I wouldn't know. How submissive of you...