Comments | hornyheatherho: party

hornyheatherho

party

Apr 30, 2006 11:42

Well, the party was fun and a hit. Chad came over and was first to arrive. We almost immediately started making out on my bed, couldn't keep our hands off each other. Next thing I know he is asking me where this is headed... I am cautious and he suggests "fun, play" and I say, "yeah, but I do want a relationship" sometime here... I thought we ( Read more... )

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the_leaking_pen May 1 2006, 05:11:28 UTC

sounds like he wants to take it slow.

and glad the party went well, kinda pissed with myself i didnt go ahead and try to get a ride over.

ride... hornyheatherho May 2 2006, 05:46:09 UTC

Yeah, didn't get your message until too late

Re: ride... the_leaking_pen May 2 2006, 06:08:50 UTC

yeah, i had someone who was maybe going to take me out, and shes been depressed, so i was going to cheer her up, she called and canceled. so it was 930 by the time i called. i was pretty sure no one was sober or clothed by then. ahh wel, next time. (hey, and next time might be pool party over here. woot. )

e_o_pan May 1 2006, 09:20:17 UTC

party was well done, too bad i got sick.

tamdragon May 1 2006, 15:24:59 UTC

You got sick? I wondered what happened to you. I got sick a bit as well, but I just kept going. :)

kept going... hornyheatherho May 2 2006, 05:46:33 UTC

Yes, you did :)

whoa... magiqnapa May 1 2006, 17:00:34 UTC

maybe it's just me... but i can't get over the amazing sex part, and that would seriously be enough to float my boat for awhile while i got to know him better.
i'm sorry i don't mean to be insensitive, but it sounds like you have found a hot fucking gem.

Re: whoa... the_leaking_pen May 1 2006, 17:38:42 UTC

all pun intended?

and i disagree. i was about ready to end a physical only relationship, even though the sex was amazing, because if i feel theres not a chance of a long term emotional involvement, i generally dont feel i should be having sex with the person. (note i say not relationship, but emotional involvement. big difference). funnily, it was right when i was about to end it that it changed to what id been hoping for, but still, i see where shes coming from. hes not looking for the same things at the same timeframe as her. that can cause a lot of confusion and resentment down the road.

Re: whoa... hornyheatherho May 2 2006, 05:51:11 UTC

I would be a VIRGIN if I followed your LTR ideals... well, since I know that he doesn't want anything serious... it would ridiculous of me to involve my head in that way. This is WHY I like the truth and all that nice and upfront like. I think this could be a gem of a time, at the least. I would like to have a serious option still open, but I guess it either is or isn't still possible at this point. So, what am I losing?

Re: whoa... the_leaking_pen May 2 2006, 06:17:27 UTC

really? i was a virgin till two months before my twenty fith birthday becuase of my rules. (that, and, i wont ask a woman out if i dont consider her a friend, and i wont ask a friend out if i think it might make the friendship go weird. missed out on a couple of really special ladies that way, but then, i wouldnt have had my time with my heather otherwise, so no complaining. shes worth a dozen mandys and a gross of christines. ) could have lost it at 12 and 14, didnt, knew it wouldnt last. would have at 17, but she was against sex before marriage (not what killed it) and turned down 3 women after that before losing my virginity. and you know what, with two exceptions, every woman i would have said yes to, if the relationship had gone that way, im still either in a close emotional relationship with, or if i ran into them in the streets, would be instantly again. it works for me. but thats just it. it works for ME. my morals are for me, yours are for you ( ... )

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abstract_savant May 1 2006, 23:01:18 UTC

I'm sorry I missed it. Life got too hectic.

party hornyheatherho May 2 2006, 05:42:13 UTC

We missed ya!