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[hotbanana]

*sigh* im sorta in a dilemna right now...i have a bf...his name is connor. connor is sweet, hilarious and really cares about me. but, this is the second time we've gone out...the frist time failed because i broke it off when my best friend moved away *too depressed for relationship

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[xxfadedxx]

Just tell him that you need to break it off and you'd rather be just friends. And just be his friend. Talk to him occasionally but don't be like best friends because he'll get clingy. But yea tell him that you still care about him as a person and that you can help him move on if he needs it. If you aren't feeling it, it's making things even worse because he'll just get even more attached. It's actually for the best for him. And plus he'll get over it in time.

Ehh, hope that helped. It was a bit jumbled. Sorry if it doesn't make sense.

♥

[hotbanana]

lol, cant say it really helped...but it made me smile *hugs* thanx for caring, and i did break it off tonite...and he was actually really cool about it! YAY!!!

[hotbanana]

ya i did it...i broke it up...and i also did basically what you just described...you and i are like this *crosses fingers* lol

but thanx for commenting *hugs*

[rainbowtoesock]

if he cares about you that much, and you think its going to be hard on him to move on, i dont suggest being friends. It will just make it worse. I have been on both ends (broken/breakee)when i broke up with him i said i still really want to be friends, he did everything he could to try and make me jealous (never worked) he always wanted to be around me and my friends. He got a little crazy when i started dating some one new, it just got a little out of hand. so i had to break off the friendship as well. it was for the best.

now on my end. I wanted to be friends with my ex he said he wanted it too (we had been best friends for four years) well he was dating this girl he worked with. he lied to me about it, gave me false hope, and a bunch of other bs. eventually i found out about it. and kicked him out of my life for good. It was still really hard but keeping him IN my life was making it harder.

so i guess what im trying to say in a nut shell is... dont try to make him feel better he will only feel better on his own.

[hotbanana]

hello, i'm happy to see you in my lj. and yea, i know what you mean...breaking up and being friends afterwards work about 1 out of 500 times. i appreciate your advice and input *hugs*