So what the fuck is it with the gay community????

[hotbastard]

So what the fuck is it with the gay community, anyway???? Really? Why are people in the gay community threatened so much by people who are in the closet or identify as bisexual

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[boywondermark]

Welcome back, sweetie!

I have always respected the privacy of others and believe that a person's sexual life and orientation are his/her own business to share with whoever they like. I'm sorry you had your privacy violated and then were questioned like you should just 'give it up' to any clown that wanted you!

*hugs*

[hotbastard]

Thanks BoyWonder! I always knew your stance, but where are all the opposing viewpoints? Too chickenshyt to mess with me, I suppose!!! LOL

[boywondermark]

LOL! You are so cute!

I'll fight ya...c'mon!

[dkonfrost]

Coming out is ALWAYS a personal matter. No one should force someone to come out, EVER. It's one thing to bring encouragement, but it's crossing the line when someone is deliberately outed against their will. Coming to terms with being gay/bi is tough enough as it is, it should never be complicated by violation of privacy.

good for you!...and it's great to hear from you

[hotbastard]

Thanks for the support!!!! :) And you know, the people that I've seen who are willing to out others always seem angry and vengeful people for some reason, its they want others to experience their pain ten fold, like they regretted coming out or something.

[obscureterminus]

I agree with you!! There's this one gay couple that my bf and I are aquainted with. They lure couples into 4 somes then they break them up. They almost did this to us. So if I had a choice, I would be in the closet and not in the community as I am now. My bf brought me in further and showed me things that sometimes I wish I never seen.

[hotbastard]

Thanks for replying! I hope things are ok with you. Play safe ok? I've noticed they're a lot of homewreckers in the GLBT community, you know? Like they get some kind of joy from it, like its some type of badge to them.

[obscureterminus]

Tell me about it. GLBT can be dangerous for it's own people.

[alecsandyr]

AMEN.

Anytime I'm in a new locale for more than a week or so, I seek out the gay/bi hotspots, and within five minutes of walking in, I can tell who to avoid. Not just the obvious ones either, like creepy old men giving me the eye from their corner of the bar or whatever, but also the most social and animated (and, truly enough, flamboyant). Higher chances of drama queens in those groups, and I just steer clear. Same with groups of friends, especially here on campus. Haven't regretted it yet.

My new list of letters, by my understanding and your insight, goes something like this:
BLGTTIQQCCCH
Bi-Lesbian-Gay-Transgender-Transsexual-Intersexed-Queer-Questioning-Curious-Confused-Closeted-Horny

Btw, good to hear from you again. Post more pictures. :)

[hotbastard]

I do the same thing, there's always a group of people I always try to avoid, yet they always seem to find a way to "creep" into my life somehow.

[tofer62]

You are so right, there is so much judgement within the gay community. As far as being in the closet or out...that is a personal choice and should be respected by all. Different people deal with their personal lives in different ways and there is no right or wrong way to do it, just your way...whatever it may be as long as it works for you and hurts no one else. Belive me, I have come up against some nasty bitter people in the gay community and for the most part they are that way because they are very unhappy with their own lives. You just live your life your way and be happy, thats what really counts.

[hotbastard]

I agree totally, you gotta live your life your way.

I noticed your a fan of The Four Agreements. There's a live journal group, btw. And the guy that owns this link got me to read it. I LOVE this man! I wish he would post his pics on the site, he's also a real hottie!!!! LOL He wrote a book, himself, too.

http://www.theworldisasafeplace.com