Comments | hotelmornings: Woah

hotelmornings

Woah

Feb 09, 2005 23:52

You know, I always sit here thinking about how shitty my life is; I haven’t written anything that thought provoking as of late. So, I’m going to write something to give you a better idea of who I am, what I stand for ( Read more... )

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mizz_jailbait February 10 2005, 14:25:21 UTC

wow i love the story about the rose on the laple.

i think people are too much about peoples looks too. i almsot saved my head last year, because its hard for me to know what guys really like me for me, so many seem to be about looks and not many girls look cute with bald heads. luckily some friends talked me out of it. lol - but i wanted to see if the guys who were around me then would have changed if my looks had changed...

hotelmornings February 12 2005, 01:21:56 UTC

The story is great, they ended up getting wed. I loved it. :). I think this socity is superficial. And I for one hate it; but whatever not much you can do but sit back and enjoy the ride. :)

vulpinepilot February 10 2005, 18:37:28 UTC

hehe nice essay. its easy for me to not take it personally. I dont know if our talk via IM was the only contributer to this essay, but I still feel the need to point out similarities and difference in my life from this one you believe to be so pathetic.

1: yeah Im antisocial. not incredibly, but enough its hard to approach people. but hey Im young, I havent given up yet.

2: yeah I do have an online persona, because in reality I cannot be an anthro fox. but also I act much more interested, and I talk to people a lot via IM, whereas in person, I am ussually disinterested and shy.

3: no Im not looking for love online. I decided after my last relationship to not actively seek out love, online or otherwise. I meet people online because they IM me and I am interested in them. I get to know them, but I never start out thinking "hey I wonder if (s)he'll be my boyfriend/girlfriend." and Ive NEVER taken those online dating sites seriously.

4: I make it clear to everyone I talk to, that I talk to at least four other people. so theres no ( ... )

hotelmornings February 12 2005, 01:25:25 UTC

It's not you, it's so many people I've come across. Partly from our convo, and partly since V. day is comming up so close. It was not really you who inspired it; just someone who is willing to break up with someone for me. Thats what really trigged it; he's not happy with his boyfriend. So, he wants to break up with him and get with me see the problem here is that he lives in FL. So, I think it's so lame of him to do that.

Everyone lives their life differently; you live yours the only way you can, and I live mine the only way I can.

amber__waves February 11 2005, 01:13:58 UTC

nice stories!

hotelmornings February 12 2005, 01:25:33 UTC

Thanks :)

pijmydodna February 11 2005, 01:29:50 UTC

Let me state now that I do not believe in love at all. Growing up I have seen that loving someone is not possible and I have not been proven wrong since ( ... )

vulpinepilot February 11 2005, 01:36:35 UTC

hehe being an artist, Ive learned that as hard as it may be, you cannot compare yourself to others. theres always someone better than you and always someone worse. and thats what envy is! so I try t not compare myself to other people, because the last thing I wanna waste my life on is being jealous of those more fortunate than me

pijmydodna February 11 2005, 01:58:21 UTC

I am trying to learn how not to compare myself to others. It is such a hard task! It is almost second nature. I am an aspiring writer and the thing that gives me writers block or makes me hate my own work is when I compare it to someone else(of course I never pick someone who is just beginning like me. Oh no, I must choose someone brilliant like Oscar Wilde or Thomas Mann). Sadly, instead of wasting my live on "love" I waste my life on what I fear I will never be.
It would be wonderful if we could all stop comparing ourselves with others. I know I still have a lot of work before I can get to that point ^^

hotelmornings February 12 2005, 01:28:57 UTC

I am amazing :).

I believe in everything that you just said. How when you reflect on it you think that we're not supposed to go out there and find it. Just you know let it embrase you that way you can say holy shit, I've found the true meaning of what it is to be in love. I'm bitter, I'm honest when I say that my friends who have found love I'm truly bitter towards them. But, that's just life.

The discription is 100% true. In real life I only befriend those who I beileve will be worth my time. Online I befriend those who I think eh, why not. They might have something intersting to say. And so far, I've met arouns 20 amazing people that just make me smile. (you being one of them).

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secretprophet February 12 2005, 18:44:52 UTC

You made me speeachless :-/, which is amazing for someone with a ton of witty remarks and sarcastic comments T_T. I've wanted to comment on a lot of the topics you've brought up and just.. it's hard to explain. I've been unable to think of anything constructive and insightful, sicne you've posted this, to comment with or add to. I still don't beleive i can, so i will just comment on what i thought of you, as a person online overall ( ... )